Am I wrong?

We're in a family room in a hotel atm. My boys 3.5 and 6 months old only co sleep so I put them in bed with me with space between us. My husband comes, pushed the kids ups, put a pillow down and went to sleep on the pillow in the same bed. I woke up to feed my 6 month old and see my toddler is on top of the 6 month olds arm. I said you are putting them at risk. I said I'll sleep on the bunk beds you keep an eye and feed baby if he wakes up. Then he kicks off swearing and sleeps in the bunk bed. Then said I can take them down to breakfast myself. Am I wrong?

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.

Add a comment

What is going on with these men why are they consistently babies? Like get it together fr🙄! Like yeah let me be mad at my wife who’s trying to care for and keep the kids (he probably asked for/wasn’t try to prevent) at the very least alive🙄! If there was an option to sleep somewhere else in the room he should have slept there from the jump

He sounds like a self centered prick in this situation. Cuz he could have easily slept elsewhere so the kids don’t get squished in but instead he gets all huffy cuz of it. Absolutely the fuck not! But that’s fine you and the kids can go get breakfast and he can be a bratty child and stay in the room and pout.

Leave him to finish his tantrum and go enjoy your breakfast

I’d say yes you are over reacting a bit because if you didn’t co sleeping their wouldn’t have bin safety issue

in our community

First time break down

Finally had my first night where I broke down crying with my baby boy. I did everything I could to soothe him and he wouldnt stop till 3am and in that moment I felt so alone trying to do this. Everything is fine now but ftm and already almost 2 months in and it all hit me at once.

Naps?

My LO is 3 months old and she is sleeping through the night (9pm/10pm - 6am/7am)

However, health professionals are asking about her nap times. We dont monitor her naps at all, we just let her sleep when she wants too - is this right?

Just curious what others do?

Jolly Jumper

How serious is the 15 minute rule for the Jolly Jumper? I feel like she could jump for an hour and have the best time

Help!

My almost 4 week old will not go down for a nap / at night. She falls asleep on us no issue and then soon as we transition her she lasts about 10 mins and then she’s awake. It’s the same during daytime naps and at night. Any help or tips would be greatly appreciated!!!

Sex postpartum

So I’m about to be 3 weeks postpartum. And last night my husband and I had sex… I know very well that we should have waited. I never had any intention of doing this. But I just turned 21 on the 8th, I have a big milk supply and decided to drink a little bit. I had a few shots and usually that doesn’t get me really drunk but I didn’t take into consideration my 9 month long tolerance break😭 anyway so my husband and I were just kissing and that was it but without my big belly in the way we just got carried away and it just felt like before I got pregnant and idk we took it too far. Anyways there was a lot of blood…I’m not currently bleeding but it still freaked me out. I’m just wondering if anyone else has done this or knows anyone who has. I know I made a stupid mistake, so I don’t need to hear that😭 just if I’m possibly dying.

10 week old hands constantly in his mouth

My other child is autistic and now I’ve seen that this is a sign of autism too and I’m panicking.

He isn’t hungry either because he’s just been fed and he is constantly sucking his hands