Feeling lost

I’m so sorry to hear this. However please don’t blame yourself, if that man cannot deal with you and your emotions at such a time then he needs to gain some maturity.
You don’t need him and you don’t need to rely on anyone.
You can walk use a bus get a train you don’t need to drive.
Please don’t ever feel like you need a man I know you’re heartbroken but what man does this.
You are stronger than you realise and you’ll be ok no matter what. Try and be positive look for the good in the little things.. sending love 🤍 xxx

Oh bless you I am so sorry you are going through this. I think you should reach out to perinatal mental health if you haven’t already. Your hormones and emotions are all over the place and your partner should understand this. Reach out to them and then reach out to him. But remember you can do this and if he doesn’t stick by you at your worst he goes not deserve you at your best. Feel free to reach out direct if you want to chat. Good luck and you’ve got this, we are all stronger than we think

I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It's scary being on your own. My friend went through the very same, the dad did a runner. Wimps! Of course youre gna be mean! Hormones are crazy! & the pain. My pregnancy has had loads of pain & I've been so short & mean! It's one of hardest things you'll ever do. You should not be judged & be supported! Especially if you're able to recognise it's not you it's the hormones. I've definitely had to apologise a few times.
I feel like ducking out when youre so close to popping is a dick move! Just cause you've broken up why does that mean he's not going to be there when you give birth? Why does the support for his child stop? Not good enough! It might not seem like it but it'll be ok! Millions of people are single parents & theyre better of doing it alone! When you have your baby nothing else will matter.
Do get help for the depression. I had to go on medication & had counselling for 2 years after my first. It saved my life! You'll grow from this & become even stronger!!

This breaks my heart to read I’m so sorry you’re going through this, pregnancy is a rollercoaster of emotions definitely don’t blame yourself, if he can’t deal with your emotions now how can he be mature enough to deal with all the emotions that come after baby is here and the challenges of being a parent. Sounds like he needs to do some growing up still without sounding too harsh. I’m in a similar situation so I sympathise with you, also have no friends and been left by baby’s dad to deal with pregnancy alone, no emotional or financial support and will also be doing labour alone. It’s a scary time but I don’t doubt you will find the strength to get through this for your baby ❤️ it might be worth speaking to your midwife and see what support they can offer you, my midwife has been great. I hope he will come to his senses and regret his decision but if not don’t feel your completely alone there’s a lot of help and support out there. Wishing you the best of luck x

Happened to me 6w pp. it’s horrible and the resentment eats you up but don’t let it. Cry it out and just keep telling yourself life goes on and it will get better. Do you really care about someone who walked out like that?