What does your partner do?

We both work full time. Bills are paid from a joint account. All chores are free game. That included cooking, laundry, yardwork and the kids daily needs.

Ummm considering you also work you should definitely not be doing 100% of the house work. And it’s not considered helping they’re his kids too, so it’s called doing his part and you guys communicate how you will split those responsibilities. I have taken a break from work and became a stay at home mom. My husband works a regular 9-5. He comes home washes all the dishes for the day, washes the bottles, sweeps up if needed, takes over helping with the kids, if I am too tired he will cook, he helps put my son to bed, after bed he picks up all the toys for the day, then he does his own routine for the rest of the night

He works full time and I’m a stay at home mum
However … he absolutely helps me they are HIS children and HE lives in this house

My husband everyday , put the kids to bed (teeth , milk , sets them up with a film ) , baths them (on Bath days ) , plays with help , helps them tidy their room etc

- He also does the dishes , in 10 years I have done the dishes a handful of times only , when he is sick etc I cook , he does dishes
- he folds and puts away the laundry
and he out the bins out.
Once or twice a month he will help me “blitz” the house and do wiping down , toy sorting or hovering etc

No that's not normal. My husband and I both work full time but he does more of the chores. I mostly wash and dress the girls, do the food shopping and sort appointments. We share the cooking and nursery runs but my husband does the rest. He does the laundry, all the cleaning, hoovers every night, changes the bedding twice a week, maintains the garden. He always has the girls for a few hours Sunday afternoon so I can have a rest. He does most of the chores and I've never asked him once

Looks like they have it handled in the comments. Nothing further your honor.

Those TikTok reels are def not for show. Coz men that generally don’t do them, won’t do them just for a video. They’re doing it because they’re used to doing it, it’s their norm and just coincidentally being recorded. My man carries 60% of my mental load. I’m not burnt out or overwhelmed coz I get true 50/50 partnership from him and not just him providing. He’s actually here present at home and my other 2 arms 2 legs 2 eyes right beside me even if I didn’t ask. He’s not a gamer btw. He makes my boys lunch every day in the morning before work and all school correspondence goes to him then he relays to me coz he did the school enrolment form, he put down his email as the primary email. Mines secondary/emergency 😅 oh and he does the main grocery shopping, I just get whatever fruits and veggies I can get my hands on that’s on sale at the market on Sundays I haven’t walked into a supermarket in years