Stopping Pull Ups?

My almost 4 year old daughter is potty trained but still wears a pull-up at night. Is anyone in the same boat and have you thought about stopping soon? I know a lot of kids have bed wetting accidents for the upcoming ages past four and obviously, we could reduce water consumption in the evening, but have you switched to undies at night and what has your experience been like yet?

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Intimacy after kids

I know this is a common "issue" after having kids but I'm struggling and my husband has opened up to me few times about it after having our second ( almost 1.5yrs old). He says he hates having to ask and he hates my reluctance when we are intimate. We currently have sex once a week and he asks every 2-3 days. I'm a stay at home mom and I am with our 2 children 24/7. They have never been watched by another person. My 1.5yr old wakes throughout the night still and has really rough nights when he's teething. I'm touched out, exhausted, and feel like im losing myself. I love my husband to death but I have a hard time being affectionate and ive always struggled with this.
He works 5 days a week, sometimes less if the weather is bad as he does manual labor outdoors. Because he works, I have a hard time asking him for help at home. I feel really guilty. As a result, I have mental breakdowns occasionally.
I do the laundry, dishes, cleaning, and most meals.
He does dinner a couple times a week, and baths once a week to every other week.
I moved with him to his home state so I have no friends or family (besides his). I am home all week, every week as we only have 1 vehicle which he takes to work. We do grocery shopping on the weekends as a family which is the only time I get away from the house. I also have to admit that he has started back up on some old habits that turn me off, so im struggling to want to initiate because of that.
I know I need more breaks and to leave the house more but does anyone have any other advice to help improve that area of concern?

Was this really an accident or was it on purpose?

My husband 'accidentally' binned and washed my sourdough starter. I can't believe it was an accident because its nearly a year old, it has literally been sitting in our kitchen for a year! He says I left it near the sink so he just assumed it was to get washed out. I had just baked this morning and had left it near the sink, but not at the sink if that makes sense. We have a designated area that dishes usually get left before they get cleaned and it was nowhere near there.
Also he claims he didn't know what it was. He has seen me make bread a billion times. He has eaten the bread a billion times. It had been sitting on the kitchen counter for a year! 🥴 I said to him he should have asked if he wasn't sure instead of just assuming I wanted to get rid of it, but his excuse is he didn't know I was using it/or what it was and I hadn't even thanked him for cleaning up after me. I was going to clean up, but we had two children who I was also tending to at the same time.
I know I can make another one but it's just annoying, I was proud of myself for keeping it this long and it was a really great starter. I also feel like he's done it on purpose because we have been arguing a lot lately about who does what in the house. We both work, but I WFH part time so it seems to him that I'm just home all the time doing 'nothing'. We have a 1yo and a 4yo, 4yo goes to nursery in the mornings and 1yo goes to granny's, I work 4hrs every morning and then I pick up both kids and have them for the rest of the day. I do all the meals, all the cleaning, all the laundry, all the extracurricular activities, all the shopping, manage our bills. My husband works full time 9-5, comes home, he helps with bath time and bedtime and acts as if he's done it all. It drives me insane.

Can I be annoyed at this? Girls help

So my partner used to work in a bar. But he quit because of me. Months later he just text me sayin his boss text him sayin they are short staffed and could he do a one off this weekend. I said I was not happy at all about this. As I know it will just be full of drunk girls flirting. What do I do??

Does anyone have a child who uses a wheelchair and puts them in there to get things done when they are a risk to themselves?

I just had an occupational therapy home visit and the lady watched how she was for an hour and a bit n she jist keot saying how risky her behaviour is, shows no understanding, breaks out of everything and climbs everything and strong and agressive and she suggested if i need a cuppa tea or I want to take 5 mims without being attacked, jumped on or being there with her with my arms out ready to catvh her next impulse or injury then i should. She said even put her in it to watch tv whilst you do what ever ypu need to do. She has a condition that means her walking outside isnt good and flares up and she can get stiff but other than that she is the most hyperactive, strongest most impulsive child that cannot stay still, engage in any play or calm down at all she is destructive and agressive and thats ehy it was said. What would you do? Right now she is like it from 6am until 9pm and throughout the night too.she also has a safety bed she can escape. She has no speech and no understanding like 0

Contemplating

Hi everyone Im a first time mom 21 (turning 22 tomorrow) (first time pregnancy ever) Im a month along and I currently in a rock in a hard place, my partner has been stressing me out and has been making me feel like I’m lesser than. I been thinking about leaving and taking the pill to allow us to go out separate ways. Ive been trying to make it work between us but it’s getting worse, my mom said men like when you are mean to them and she’s right 😭 ive been nice to him and Hes been treating me worse vs when we first met. Help I need advice please

Did anyone else end up crying uncontrollably during back to school clothes shopping as a kid?

I cried in a northern reflections kids (Canadians will know) while modeling stuff for my family. Just in tears the whole time.