Boyfriends family

Honey don’t feel bad that was a decision between you and your man the father of your child honestly if they have something to say about it tell them it’s not your decision and if they don’t pay the bill keep the comments to there self this is y’all’s child yalls decision not there’s

Hell ill tell them for ya lol

I just started this path after having my second and ending a career. My husband was staying at home forst with our first child until we made plans to switch. Hell go back to work after hes had a little break[he was the breadwinner from start of relationship. But i always wanted to keep an independence of som sort so i did a part time job.] Few years and 2 under4 kidslater im home. Its a hard adjustment the way yhe flow is for me personally . I have a judgemental family that just earns that title with their approaches to new faces. Iv had friends and boyfriends including my husband and yet theyre in my ear about them. It doesnt make sense to tell them anything anymore because they would still choose their own view rather than investigate and ask directly.
You do what works for you to get the job done. Community has importance but it needs healthy connection and respected boundaries. Waiting until your baby can tell uou if somethings wrong is perfect time they can go to school. Sahp have a goldem opportunit

*opportunity, theres a world to explore again with them and for them. And without the 4 walls that has its own system to teach. You can still show them quite a lot and theyll get to know themselves so well they can calibrate their own system of learning and self love...amomg other things.

Same girl but i just let them talk because at the end of the day it aint their business to know everything they dont pay our bills 🤷‍♀️ not just that but they always gonna have something to talk about ... dont let it get to you as long as yall are on the same page thats all that matters not others opinions

Maybe none of them know this path. And unknown cam shake a persons confidence. Is this they path you want and are willing to go through. You know why you know how. And you will be diligent. Whats the fuss if anyone else says something different. Concerned input is valid to consider within your bounds but it is not an order nor some law. We're in a new age where we just need to look forward and keep going with what we said we would do and watch the changes the world gets to see again. For the better as is always the end goal. For the better

Srry to blow up like this

My husband had to put my MIL in her place about it and she was a SAHW and SAHM since getting married. She kept saying things like he’ll be too burnt out provided etc. and I shouldn’t ask him to take on that responsibility. In reality, she didn’t think he was capable of it and doesn’t view being a mechanic as a career that provides. 2 years in, I have no need to work still and she’s shut up.

They apparently think him making 100k a year isnt enough for 3 people???? We think we can live comfortably on that.

Are they annoyed that it means you don’t need to ask them to babysit?

Why do they have a say in your private life. Boundaries should be set...

You’re doing what’s best for your daughter and your family. Never apologize for that!! They should want what’s best for her too