Husband probs.
My husband loves to argue with our 5 year old son. He called him a big baby because he likes to sleep in our room and not in his own bed. He constantly treats our son like shit bc our son is “mean” well he’s not gonna change unless he changes but he thinks it’s the opposite way around. Childish or no??
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Massively childish. He is meant to model good behaviour for your son, not the other way round
I’ve commented on ur other posts. This is a common theme. Again I’ll say it, Your husband is a POS
I would not allow my son to be around that
I'm not sure what advice you're seeking or if you just need to hear again that your husband is the problem. This won't change because he doesn't think there's anything wrong
Leave that man asap x
You and your son will be better for it
In your post 2m ago you threatened divorce on another subject because he’s holding you back from being the mum you want to be. So what’s holding you back from divorcing him? Because he’s a manchild and an Ahole to say the least. You KNOW he’s a bad father, and now this. Problems are going to keep coming up for you and arguments are going to keep happening the longer you are with him. Who argues with a 5yr old?! My son is 7 and sneaks into our room every morning at 5/6 to cuddle me, hubby has never said a word.
My partner “matches energy” with my 4 yr old because sometimes she doesn’t want to talk to him or hold his hand and I think that shit is so weird
Any who I’m leaving him I move out on Monday for a number of things but the energy towards the kids is so odd
Huh, I wonder why your son is “mean” to him if he treats him like shit and calls him names and is in fact teaching him to be mean to everyone too 🫠 HOW WEIRD DAD. UGH. 😑 I love when they complain about problems they’re blatantly creating.
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My husband loves to argue with our 5 year old son. He called him a big baby because he likes to sleep in our room and not in his own bed. He constantly treats our son like shit bc our son is “mean” well he’s not gonna change unless he changes but he thinks it’s the opposite way around. Childish or no??
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