Would you be annoyed at this reaction

She’s right and wrong… yes kids do this sometimes to rarely or never but at the same time if you see it or if it happens don’t just go “meh 👐🏾” and continue on with your day teacher your kids to be gentle with other kids…like is this not common since ? My son is autistic and when I see him push his brother that’s 7 almost 8 months over or when he’s in his walker and pushes his brother out his way etc I tell him not to do that and I tell him why and he frowns about it or cries for a few seconds but atleast he’s learning how it would feel if it happened to him so he can try to have a much better day by using gentle hands and being kind but at the same time his brother tries to bite him and pull his hair so It’s a somewhat often war but other days be a lot smoother 😂

I don't care if it's something that kids do at that age if my little boy hit/pushed someone in the stomach I'd be talking to him and telling him we don't do that and to use his gentle hands and either getting him to apologise or I would.

This is unacceptable reaction from mum imo, this is why there are so many violent children in schools now, nobody ever taught them basic behaviour and this includes the special needs kids - of course they may have more outbursts and tendencies to lash out, but a lot of them also understand very well what it means to treat others how you'd like to be treated. All parents, teachers etc should make the maximum effort to teach them this no matter what, it's a basic thing required for a decent society.

I hope to never cross paths with parents like this because I don't know if I'll be able to remain calm.