Any other moms awake and cannot sleep at the moment?
Baby girl was born on Monday evening at 22.35 after a rather long, exhausting labour (she just didn’t want to come into the world that day)! We were discharged yesterday and have been home since, to be honest last night wasn’t even so bad. Today however, she’s been feeding almost all day (cluster feeding, sometimes for an hour and a half, other times for 10 min!) and since I’m breastfeeding I have some “cracking” problems, as well as latch and attachment issues, which the midwives will call me about tomorrow morning. We gave her formula a few times as well and she just seems constantly hungry, so I of course panic I don’t produce enough collostrum (milk hasn’t come in yet)!to keep her full. I’m sore all over, totally inlove with her and totally overwhelmed. Every time she cries, I cry and I constantly worry if she’s getting enough to eat. My husband is my absolute hero and rock and the best dad ever. I just feel..alone in the motherly feelings and hormones and emotions I’m going through and honestly don’t know how to not panic. Also, how to keep her warm enough? Different midwives told us different things and it’s all just so confusing. 😭
I apologize for the long post 😕 many mothers around offered advice and help, I just don’t feel like I can text them at 1.30am and melt down…
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this sweet. I have felt similar bur for different reasons, i gave birth 10 days ago, and i have to strip my baby off to wake her to feed she’s such a sleepy baby but it worries me so much! I worry if she’s getting enough too! Which she is because she got weighed today and only 2oz off her birth weight! When she cries I’m constantly worried, always worried about everything I can’t sleep when she’s sleeping because I have to keep an eye on her!! So you’re truly not alone 🩷💕
These early days are stressful. There’s a lot to take in. Even as a second time mam I’m feeling the same and my little one is nearly 4 weeks now. Try and take it easy on yourself.
It’s normal for little ones to cluster feed but definitely speak with midwives about latch as trust me you don’t want to suffer through the pain just to ensure bay is fed. If you need formula to give your nipples a break do it. Fed is best!!! It’s tricky when breastfeeding as you never truly know how much you are feeding but I was told in the first couple of days a few teaspoons of collostrum is more than enough for baby until milk comes in. Then their stomach starts to expand. It’s tricky (and tiring) but just feed when they ask for it.
You’ve got this mama!!!
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Baby girl was born on Monday evening at 22.35 after a rather long, exhausting labour (she just didn’t want to come into the world that day)! We were discharged yesterday and have been home since, to be honest last night wasn’t even so bad. Today however, she’s been feeding almost all day (cluster feeding, sometimes for an hour and a half, other times for 10 min!) and since I’m breastfeeding I have some “cracking” problems, as well as latch and attachment issues, which the midwives will call me about tomorrow morning. We gave her formula a few times as well and she just seems constantly hungry, so I of course panic I don’t produce enough collostrum (milk hasn’t come in yet)!to keep her full. I’m sore all over, totally inlove with her and totally overwhelmed. Every time she cries, I cry and I constantly worry if she’s getting enough to eat. My husband is my absolute hero and rock and the best dad ever. I just feel..alone in the motherly feelings and hormones and emotions I’m going through and honestly don’t know how to not panic. Also, how to keep her warm enough? Different midwives told us different things and it’s all just so confusing. 😭
I apologize for the long post 😕 many mothers around offered advice and help, I just don’t feel like I can text them at 1.30am and melt down…
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