Am I the problem
When me and my baby dad was together I allowed him to have female friends. He told me he knew his female friends for years whether from growing up or through friends of friends . Recently he told me that he was gonna to a party and that he was gonna crash on my couch for the night . Me forgetting that it was gonna thunderstorm the next day I told him he could stay another night. The night he went out to go to a party his friends bailed on him. My baby dad came over yesterday he told me that he was talking to a girl and he just simply wanted to be her friend nothing more . He said he wanted to get back with me bc I did a lot for him. He said that his photographer introduced them to each other. So I asked him if he told her that he just wanted to be friends he said no . I told him you have to be up front with females he said okay. It seems that he only comes to me for female advice if something happens to him. I did tell him that I don’t entertain drama and that now I’m focused on me and my son and moving forward with my life he said that he was gonna join me and not entertaining drama and that he wants to rebuild a relationship with me but my gut is saying to coparent for as long as possible?
Am I the problem or…
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Please don’t be this man’s agony aunt and let him come back and forth to use up your kindness. You’re worth so much more than that
This is just messy… messy messy. All I have to say is that you don’t need friends of the opposite sex. SORRY. Y’all can hate it, disagree with it, but idc.. ya know who doesn’t have issues? Couples that don’t have friends and hangout with the opposite gender!
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