Still annoyed with MIL for being here during my labour

My MIL came over when I was past my due date as she spends some evenings here at home with my husband. I started having contractions while she was here and she and my husband just carried on eating their dinner. He dropped her home like 2 hours later as my contractions were progressing. Am I right for holding this grudge against her and him? or am I overreacting? I just felt that time should have been about me and how I was feeling. Saying that, we did have our daughter sleeping here at home so we obviously would have needed cover and someone to be here anyway if I needed to go to the hospital but my mum was planning to come over.

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