Advice on SIL

I’ve been with my partner for 6.5 years and been engaged for about 2years now due to my surprise pregnancy of my son, but now his sister is pregnant now and planned her baby shower the weekend both mine and my partner’s birthday when there is clearly other weekends to do it on. And truthfully she’s harming her pregnancy by continuing to vape and some other things that it’s restricting the baby’s growth. Also she’s an attention seeker, during my son’s 1st birthday party she asked my partner why I was upset after hearing his aunt and uncle’s excuse for not coming due to a MLB game, and proceeds to ask if it’s about her. And for a while my partner has had a tough time finding peace to just cut her off.

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