Money question

So my man ask me to buy a bookbag he was supposed to purchase because he didnt have money on his card. I brought it. Today im expecting him to pay me back when I ask him for the money all hell brakes loose. He screaming idc care about him and all this extra stuff. My thing is hes always had an issue with paying ppl back. But I said it before I even brought it. Like oh when u get paid I want my money. Am i wrong?? He was suppose to buy it not me..

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The money you give a man is tuition fees for the lesson you are about to learn.

Be thankful your lesson only cost you a small amount, some women pay thousands and also waste years into the mix too. Your ‘man’ is a bum. A broke one at that. Get your money back off him and dump him. Unless you want to live a poverty stricken life….

Don't let him borrow money in the future. Youre both wrong.

Don’t ever lend out money that you can’t bear to lose, esp to someone who you know tends to not pay people back.
He sounds like a scrub though and I understand your frustration. Men out here acting like children 🙄

Ladies above pretty much covered everything.
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Just curious! I recently made the choice to be a single mom after multiple issues with my spouse.
On top of dealing with him.being such an inactive parent and then him coming out as trans and our finiacal issues I finally just decided I was done.
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I have been stay at home mom since 2021 since we have 4 kids. Early September 3 of them go to school so I would need atleast 200 a week to cover daycare cost for one year old.

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