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I see a lot of posts on here bagging out peoples partners, asking advice about whether they should be annoyed at things and ultimately hating on their men.
Are there actually women here who love their partners, have a healthy relationship and who's partners are exactly that a partner in this parenting experience.
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Omg this! A typical peanut post is like “damn my husband didn’t take out the trash!” And the comments are all “this is abuse leave himmmmmmm!” 😮💨😅 in sickness and in health am I right
He's 100% the best partner. Being a stay at home dad isn't an easy job and he smashes it even with all the comments he gets x
It’s no secret that a lot of male partners are not good. Just look at history. All men collectively agreed on oppressing women
My husband is lovely and I literally couldn’t live without him but I still get annoyed he didn’t take care of the dishes and make fun of him because he can’t talk and do anything at the same time. It’s all about balance 😂
Love my man so much! I appreciate everything he does for us and I tell him every day!
Yes 🫶🏼 I have a great partner.
My heart does break for the women here who are in bad relationships. I know how it feels to be with an awful man. But having children with a person like that must be really tough ! 🥺
I genuinely think my husband is the only good man in the planet. Maybe there are a handful of others. But people don’t want to hear about that! People need to vent sometimes and that’s fine!
Also People’s opinion on what makes a good partner is different too. A lot of people I see that say they have good partners, would not be considered good to me. So we have to keep that in mind too
In the 6yrs I’ve been active on peanut making friends making the odd post or poll here and there, I’ve never once needed to make a vent post about my husband, it’s all random lifestyle questions and asking people what they did on the weekend or showing what I cooked 😅 We hardly ever fight- we have nothing to fight ABOUT. He is my peace, I am his. We have a pretty healthy relationship I would say. His driving is annoying though, he has a heavy foot he tends to speed a lil and doesn’t ever know his friggin bearings so he annoys tf outta me sometimes but only in the car when he’s driving lol. The house is pretty peaceful. I feel like I plucked him straight out of a Korean drama lol.
You tend not to see the positive posts because people are more likely to vent than brag. Similar to how you never see posts about how great a sleeper someone's baby is.
I think my man is amazing and pretty damn close to perfect! I love him like crazy.
It would be weird if I came on a mom app with struggling moms and started posting about how my baby is so amazing, sleeps through the night, barely cries. … like it’s great for me, but then what… I’m not asking for help with anything… the point is just to brag?
You see “bad partner” posts because those people actually need something and have a point to posting… like advice.
Happy people are just living their happy lives.
I love him but sometimes 😔 Idek how to handle him.
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I’m at a loss of what to do, how to cope and make a safe place for me, little boy and the baby yet to be born.
Any advice?!
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On top of dealing with him.being such an inactive parent and then him coming out as trans and our finiacal issues I finally just decided I was done.
I really need a job to get back into workforce though now and stop relying on my spouse for it all.
I have been stay at home mom since 2021 since we have 4 kids. Early September 3 of them go to school so I would need atleast 200 a week to cover daycare cost for one year old.
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I’m 10 weeks pregnant. The father of the child said something that made my blood boil today! Would love to know if u understand or if it’s mainly the hormones reacting. Be truthful/blunt! Ok so.. he randomly says “ I’m going to be miserable when the belly starts getting bigger bc I will become sex deprived “, “ sex with a pregnant woman isn’t as enjoyable “.
Ok so I understand he has the right for those thoughts and may even be accurate in ways.. but miserable is a strong word. I’m growing our child. I found that really hurtful. Sure think it I don’t blame u for that! But why say it to me? Ofc that will make me feel sad.
He tried to save it by saying he’s excited for my belly to grow bc I’ll still be beautiful with a big baby belly. And I’m not denying that he doesn’t feel that way. But idk my turn to hear from you lovely ladies. Am I over reacting? Or was he kinda stupid for that. Once again don’t blame him for those thoughts, but he didn’t need to share them with me. My body’s changing, my confidence is good, but it’s shifting in a different kinda way in regards to the way my body’s becoming. He already has one child from a past relationship. I’m sure having intimacy while pregnancy, is different. Its common sense it will be different and less intense might I say.. lol but that also made me think,
so ur speaking from experience huh. ( didn’t say this to him just in my head ). I admit that’s a little much which is why I kept that thought to myself. Like he shoulda kept this to himself. Sure if u wanna vocalize ur thoughts sure but maybe word it more gently? Say it’ll be different and hard not miserable!!!!!!
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Love them!
I see a lot of posts on here bagging out peoples partners, asking advice about whether they should be annoyed at things and ultimately hating on their men.
Are there actually women here who love their partners, have a healthy relationship and who's partners are exactly that a partner in this parenting experience.
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