Sex/ body changing BD comment
/ advice plz
I’m 10 weeks pregnant. The father of the child said something that made my blood boil today! Would love to know if u understand or if it’s mainly the hormones reacting. Be truthful/blunt! Ok so.. he randomly says “ I’m going to be miserable when the belly starts getting bigger bc I will become sex deprived “, “ sex with a pregnant woman isn’t as enjoyable “.
Ok so I understand he has the right for those thoughts and may even be accurate in ways.. but miserable is a strong word. I’m growing our child. I found that really hurtful. Sure think it I don’t blame u for that! But why say it to me? Ofc that will make me feel sad.
He tried to save it by saying he’s excited for my belly to grow bc I’ll still be beautiful with a big baby belly. And I’m not denying that he doesn’t feel that way. But idk my turn to hear from you lovely ladies. Am I over reacting? Or was he kinda stupid for that. Once again don’t blame him for those thoughts, but he didn’t need to share them with me. My body’s changing, my confidence is good, but it’s shifting in a different kinda way in regards to the way my body’s becoming. He already has one child from a past relationship. I’m sure having intimacy while pregnancy, is different. Its common sense it will be different and less intense might I say.. lol but that also made me think,
so ur speaking from experience huh. ( didn’t say this to him just in my head ). I admit that’s a little much which is why I kept that thought to myself. Like he shoulda kept this to himself. Sure if u wanna vocalize ur thoughts sure but maybe word it more gently? Say it’ll be different and hard not miserable!!!!!!
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So I think miserable is a strong word to use I think. I am curious though do you not feel a sex drive still while pregnant?? I’m not saying you have to have sex but I’m just curious? During my first pregnancy and even now my sex drive has not changed ever. I’m 9 weeks right now and we have sex regularly still. Is it that you don’t want to or is he projecting that he believe you won’t want to. I have friends who have had sex with their partners all the way through as well.
That is annoying. And he sounds dumb for saying that- specially w/ experience and a relationship that failed in the past.
My bf gets turned on when i look at him and i love that,(27w now) and he gives me plenty of affection but he lets me initiate intimacy. He can also wank himself off whenever idc 🤷♀️ my drive definitely dropped since we met😂 but uk what turns me on?
Him cleaning,cooking,running to the store to get me treats i say im craving. When he makes the bed in the morning and how hes trained my dogs not to yank me down the stairs😂 i lost 70lbs last year and ive gained 40of them back 🤦♀️ but he says he prefers me this way(aint no way im keeping the weight PP!!) ur bf sounds like hes more worried about getting his willy wet rather than pleasing u. Thats an ick and ur right.
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Sex/ body changing BD comment
/ advice plz
I’m 10 weeks pregnant. The father of the child said something that made my blood boil today! Would love to know if u understand or if it’s mainly the hormones reacting. Be truthful/blunt! Ok so.. he randomly says “ I’m going to be miserable when the belly starts getting bigger bc I will become sex deprived “, “ sex with a pregnant woman isn’t as enjoyable “.
Ok so I understand he has the right for those thoughts and may even be accurate in ways.. but miserable is a strong word. I’m growing our child. I found that really hurtful. Sure think it I don’t blame u for that! But why say it to me? Ofc that will make me feel sad.
He tried to save it by saying he’s excited for my belly to grow bc I’ll still be beautiful with a big baby belly. And I’m not denying that he doesn’t feel that way. But idk my turn to hear from you lovely ladies. Am I over reacting? Or was he kinda stupid for that. Once again don’t blame him for those thoughts, but he didn’t need to share them with me. My body’s changing, my confidence is good, but it’s shifting in a different kinda way in regards to the way my body’s becoming. He already has one child from a past relationship. I’m sure having intimacy while pregnancy, is different. Its common sense it will be different and less intense might I say.. lol but that also made me think,
so ur speaking from experience huh. ( didn’t say this to him just in my head ). I admit that’s a little much which is why I kept that thought to myself. Like he shoulda kept this to himself. Sure if u wanna vocalize ur thoughts sure but maybe word it more gently? Say it’ll be different and hard not miserable!!!!!!
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