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Cheating?

What is cheating for yall? My husband and me got into a fight and he started texting to a girl that went to my baby shower and everything and now idk if I should trust him or not? Would yall still be okay if he did this? Or am I just taking it too easy on him? He did this about 2 days before my bday he give me flowers shoes and money today on my bday. Am I making the girl a problem? Or is she the problem?

7 Months Pregnant and My Partner Wants to Leave

Second time mum (currently have a 5 year old and 7 months pregnant with a girl on the way). My partner (married 8 years, together 11) has sprung on me out of the blue that he is leaving as he feels like there has been no emotional connection between us for 18 months!! Never once spoke about any of this with me. Won’t explain any whys or even consider trying to work things out.

I’m at a loss of what to do, how to cope and make a safe place for me, little boy and the baby yet to be born.

Any advice?!

Jobs you all have?

Just curious! I recently made the choice to be a single mom after multiple issues with my spouse.
On top of dealing with him.being such an inactive parent and then him coming out as trans and our finiacal issues I finally just decided I was done.
I really need a job to get back into workforce though now and stop relying on my spouse for it all.
I have been stay at home mom since 2021 since we have 4 kids. Early September 3 of them go to school so I would need atleast 200 a week to cover daycare cost for one year old.

No friends….Shrugs

I think I’ve accepted my fate of not having friends. 😩 Adulting is hard.

Sex/ body changing BD comment
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I’m 10 weeks pregnant. The father of the child said something that made my blood boil today! Would love to know if u understand or if it’s mainly the hormones reacting. Be truthful/blunt! Ok so.. he randomly says “ I’m going to be miserable when the belly starts getting bigger bc I will become sex deprived “, “ sex with a pregnant woman isn’t as enjoyable “.

Ok so I understand he has the right for those thoughts and may even be accurate in ways.. but miserable is a strong word. I’m growing our child. I found that really hurtful. Sure think it I don’t blame u for that! But why say it to me? Ofc that will make me feel sad.

He tried to save it by saying he’s excited for my belly to grow bc I’ll still be beautiful with a big baby belly. And I’m not denying that he doesn’t feel that way. But idk my turn to hear from you lovely ladies. Am I over reacting? Or was he kinda stupid for that. Once again don’t blame him for those thoughts, but he didn’t need to share them with me. My body’s changing, my confidence is good, but it’s shifting in a different kinda way in regards to the way my body’s becoming. He already has one child from a past relationship. I’m sure having intimacy while pregnancy, is different. Its common sense it will be different and less intense might I say.. lol but that also made me think,

so ur speaking from experience huh. ( didn’t say this to him just in my head ). I admit that’s a little much which is why I kept that thought to myself. Like he shoulda kept this to himself. Sure if u wanna vocalize ur thoughts sure but maybe word it more gently? Say it’ll be different and hard not miserable!!!!!!

Love them!

I see a lot of posts on here bagging out peoples partners, asking advice about whether they should be annoyed at things and ultimately hating on their men.

Are there actually women here who love their partners, have a healthy relationship and who's partners are exactly that a partner in this parenting experience.