Me and my baby father are currently broken up. We was together for a year and in that year I got cheated on once . I forgave him but he wanted to break up around his birthday. I stayed with my uncle and his girlfriend for a little bit. My uncle would only allow him over if I wanted to see him. When I was in labor my uncle came with me to the hospital and waited for my baby dad to get there. My uncle didn’t like how my baby dad was treating me while broken up. I recently told my baby dad that I wanted another kid but I wanted to wait until we both had a steady job and that we both had a steady place over our heads. He said that if we have another boy he’s done having kids with me but if we have a girl we can have more kids. He’s been being sexual with me but when I joke with him about it he says no and that he’s celebate and then he will text his female friends and jokingly ask for sex. I told him how I felt and he basically said that it didn’t mean anything bc all his friends are in a relationship and that he doesn’t look at them like that. I currently have a 3 month old that I tend to and when I do allow it from time to time I will let him and his kids come to my house. Recently while we having intercourse he mentioned wanting to get back together and living together. I asked him if we could coparent a little longer bc we were doing good. Then I asked him to watch the baby bc the baby is spitting up and I didn’t want to take him out and he just throw up everywhere. He said yes without hesitation. I start making cookies for my mom bc she needs them for an event he starts touching all over me kissing me saying that he loves me and that he wishes all his kids were by me and that he never meant to hurt me.
I feel like I’m doing everything wrong and that I shouldn’t have gotten pregnant by my baby dad .
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So, question. How old are you?

You haven’t done anything wrong but this man is bad for you. You’re only 3 months post partum, in the 4th trimester, you deserve to be looked after not taken advantage of

There are so many amazing men out there, that treat women so well and are there for their families. From your post, it sounds like he isn't one of them. You and your child deserve the best in the world and you deserve to have a great motherhood. If it's not happening at the moment with your current child, then he probably isn't the right man to have more children with. But I totally understand how difficult it is to see that you are in no way the problem, especially when it sounds like you do still love him
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Me and my baby father are currently broken up. We was together for a year and in that year I got cheated on once . I forgave him but he wanted to break up around his birthday. I stayed with my uncle and his girlfriend for a little bit. My uncle would only allow him over if I wanted to see him. When I was in labor my uncle came with me to the hospital and waited for my baby dad to get there. My uncle didn’t like how my baby dad was treating me while broken up. I recently told my baby dad that I wanted another kid but I wanted to wait until we both had a steady job and that we both had a steady place over our heads. He said that if we have another boy he’s done having kids with me but if we have a girl we can have more kids. He’s been being sexual with me but when I joke with him about it he says no and that he’s celebate and then he will text his female friends and jokingly ask for sex. I told him how I felt and he basically said that it didn’t mean anything bc all his friends are in a relationship and that he doesn’t look at them like that. I currently have a 3 month old that I tend to and when I do allow it from time to time I will let him and his kids come to my house. Recently while we having intercourse he mentioned wanting to get back together and living together. I asked him if we could coparent a little longer bc we were doing good. Then I asked him to watch the baby bc the baby is spitting up and I didn’t want to take him out and he just throw up everywhere. He said yes without hesitation. I start making cookies for my mom bc she needs them for an event he starts touching all over me kissing me saying that he loves me and that he wishes all his kids were by me and that he never meant to hurt me.
I feel like I’m doing everything wrong and that I shouldn’t have gotten pregnant by my baby dad .
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20 meals all together done, dusted and ready to freeze 🍽️

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