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I live in ohio nice to meet you
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First off congratulations!
Second, you are gorgeous.
I’m Metro Detroit near Canton and Plymouth.
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So I plan on moving to Texas next year! I currently live in Las Vegas(absolutely don’t like it) but I’m originally from California. I want to start making Texas friends!! I am 27 years old with two boys, ages 4 months & 1 years old. I want to go on trail ride & explore Texas when i touch down! Let’s be friends!!
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Starting to think I don’t have people
I’ve been looking for my people since I was very young. Like 5. I’ve never had a friend. I’ve also lived all over the country. Yet still can’t find anyone I click with. It’s really frustrating. I’m a stay at home mom that can’t drive so my life is just a prison in a nutshell
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Can I cry
Me and my baby father are currently broken up. We was together for a year and in that year I got cheated on once . I forgave him but he wanted to break up around his birthday. I stayed with my uncle and his girlfriend for a little bit. My uncle would only allow him over if I wanted to see him. When I was in labor my uncle came with me to the hospital and waited for my baby dad to get there. My uncle didn’t like how my baby dad was treating me while broken up. I recently told my baby dad that I wanted another kid but I wanted to wait until we both had a steady job and that we both had a steady place over our heads. He said that if we have another boy he’s done having kids with me but if we have a girl we can have more kids. He’s been being sexual with me but when I joke with him about it he says no and that he’s celebate and then he will text his female friends and jokingly ask for sex. I told him how I felt and he basically said that it didn’t mean anything bc all his friends are in a relationship and that he doesn’t look at them like that. I currently have a 3 month old that I tend to and when I do allow it from time to time I will let him and his kids come to my house. Recently while we having intercourse he mentioned wanting to get back together and living together. I asked him if we could coparent a little longer bc we were doing good. Then I asked him to watch the baby bc the baby is spitting up and I didn’t want to take him out and he just throw up everywhere. He said yes without hesitation. I start making cookies for my mom bc she needs them for an event he starts touching all over me kissing me saying that he loves me and that he wishes all his kids were by me and that he never meant to hurt me.
I feel like I’m doing everything wrong and that I shouldn’t have gotten pregnant by my baby dad .
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More batch cooks 👩🏽🍳🍽️
Last week it was babies turn, this week - mine! All homemade, veggies packed in (yup I have to do this for the partner to eat them! 🤣), and even got use of the leftover sweet potato and lentils from babies purée - so no waste! 🫶🏼
20 meals all together done, dusted and ready to freeze 🍽️
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I just had a break up and I can’t make up my mind for the life of me on what’s going to happen from here and I keep going back and forth on my decisions upsetting friends and family… which one would you decide
GO BACK HOME — NORTH CAROLINA
Pros
* More family/friend support.
* More help with the baby.
* You wouldn’t have to depend as heavily on your ex for help.
* You could have family support while going to LPN school.
* You wouldn’t be navigating everything alone while newly separated.
* Lower chance of staying somewhere mainly because you’re hoping the relationship comes back together.
* Could give you emotional and physical distance from the breakup.
* You already have connections/a life there.
* You’ve been looking into LPN programs there, so you could still move forward with school.
* Your mom/family could potentially help with the kids while you get yourself established.
Cons
* It’s about 1,000 miles away.
* You don’t really want to feel like you’re starting over.
* You may feel like moving home means the relationship officially ended.
* You may wonder, “What if I stayed and we worked things out?”
* You’re worried Tennessee could feel lonely romantically.
* Moving all of your belongings that far is expensive and difficult.
* Your baby would be farther away from her dad.
* Co-parenting could become more complicated.
* You have custody/legal considerations involving your other child that need to be factored in separately.
* You may feel embarrassed or disappointed about returning home after building a life in Texas.
STAY IN TEXAS
Pros
* You don’t have to make a 1,000-mile move immediately.
* You keep the life you’ve already started building here.
* Baby stays close to her dad.
* Easier for him to actually help with the baby if he follows through.
* You can pursue LVN school here.
* You don’t have to uproot the kids again.
* You get a chance to see what life in Texas looks like without making your relationship the center of it.
* If reconciliation ever happened, distance wouldn’t be an obstacle.
Cons
* Much less family support.
* You could end up handling the baby and school largely by yourself.
* His promises to help have been inconsistent.
* You could unintentionally stay because you’re waiting to see whether he changes his mind.
* Seeing/hearing about his single life may make healing harder.
* Childcare is a major issue if you start nursing school.
* Financially, establishing yourself alone could be harder.
* If you eventually decide to move anyway, you may spend money getting established here only to move later.
* Being physically close to him could keep you emotionally stuck in the back-and-forth.
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Heyyy new here I’m from Michigan would love to make new friends in my area
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