Friends

I have mum friends that have older kids and we have a group chat which we talk in, send insta or TikTok videos all the time and it seems to have died down!!

Life happens I know and stuff and I am very sensitive but sometimes I don’t get replied to but then they have conversations not acknowledging what I’ve said.

Should I women up or am I valid??

in our community

Ft/texting!!

Looking for friends to text or ft! I’m in TN but im down for in state or out of state friends!! I have a 2 yr old son and a boyfriend!! We play call of duty and are 420 friendly!

✨Best Friend Wanted ✨

I’d love to have someone to consistently talk to about to and just click with. We can vent about anything, text, call, ft. Truly would love a bestie I could just lean on and send random tik toks to-my algorithm is full of dark humor 😅

Heartbroken

I really need some advice because I feel completely lost.

I’m sorry this is long, but I honestly don’t know where else to turn.

I have a baby with my partner, and recently I found out that he has got another woman pregnant. I am absolutely devastated. There were also messages between them that I have seen, and some of the things I read have completely destroyed my trust in him.

He tells me that he doesn’t love her, doesn’t want anything to do with her and that they are no longer in contact. But after everything that has happened, I genuinely don’t know how I am supposed to believe anything he says anymore.

What makes it even harder is that when I try to talk to him about it, he gets angry with me for crying or being upset and tells me I’m being “mental” and that I’m overreacting. He has also said that because we aren’t technically together, he is allowed to go out. Tonight, for example, he is going to the same pub where he met this woman, with the same friends who enabled what happened before. I told him how incredibly disrespectful that feels to me, especially while I am still trying to process everything, and his response was essentially that we aren’t together so he can do what he wants.

I honestly don’t know what I want anymore. I love him, but I don’t think I can ever trust him again. At the same time, I’m struggling to accept the idea of breaking up my baby’s family. I never wanted my child to grow up in this situation.

My biggest problem is that I feel trapped financially.

I have around £13,000 of debt and take home approximately £2,329.89 a month. I’m a teacher and have to return to work on 1st September. I currently have roughly £500 a month going towards debt, alongside childcare, food, baby expenses, transport and other bills.

I have spoken to Citizens Advice and they suggested a Debt Management Plan, but I’m terrified of what that could mean for my credit and my ability to eventually get somewhere for me and my baby.

I keep thinking that I just want to pack a bag, take my baby and leave, but I have nowhere to go and I don’t know how I would financially manage on my own.

I feel completely broken and overwhelmed. I’m trying to be strong for my baby, but I genuinely don’t know what my next step should be.

If anyone has been in a similar situation, I would really appreciate honest advice — particularly about leaving with a baby when you’re financially trapped, debt management, housing, benefits/support I might be entitled to, and how you actually start rebuilding your life when you feel like you have absolutely nothing figured out.

Please be kind. I’m already struggling more than I can put into words.

My boyfriend was excited when I got pregnant because then I would get horny.

Idk if this is a thing for some people or not but id never heard of this until he said it. Apparently pregnant women crave sex more, like they are addicted or something. He couldn't wait for this "phase". I was like, thats what you are the most excited about right now?