2 under 2/under 3
What is everyone's thoughts about having 2 under 2/under 3? How did work take it when u told them u was pregnant again ? Trying to decide if we should or not. My partner is 32 in a few months time so he will be about 50 when our little man turns 18š
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I had 2 under 2 (twins) and then I ended up having 3under 3. Do not recommend
Im sorry that happened to you, i also had no family and no good partner to help after our 3rd was born, he became like a child and that's why it's tougher for me now. So that's why I wouldn't recommend cause people can always change but ultimately it's your choice but would not do it myself
Everyoneās situation is different and that changes the experience. Personally, Iāve got 2 under 2 with a 17 month gap and I think itās amazing and itās hasnāt been that hard so far (if anything Iāve found it easy that 1). We donāt have a big village but I do have a very supportive husband.
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My LO is 10m and has been refusing milk. We formula feed him since young.
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Of milk until 12 months.
Heās now drinking only 200 or less.
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Reassurance please
Hi all, just after some reassurance as everything online tells me to be worried!
My son is almost 18 months old and still doesnāt say any proper words. He literally says āGaā to everything.
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Negative midwife experience
Hi beautiful ladies,
Iām feeling absolutely awful about my latest midwife appointment. Iām going through the public health system so every visit is a new/different midwife. I went in for my 28 week appointment, and when the midwife asked how my mental health was I told her it was up and down and Iām after a referral for the free psychologist program offered (š¦šŗ), she looked almost annoyed at me and told me I need to talk to my own psychologist before she gives me a referral. She also asked about my support network - I told her that my dad had passed away from mental heath and my mum has a carer and addiction issues. We have a positive relationship but itās not possible or practical to rely on her. I explained that my only other family is two brothers who live two states away and do FIFO work. I explained that my partners family all live interstate with the closest being his mum who is two hours away. She told me that itās simply not good enough and that I need to get my mum to stay with me to help me and help with the baby, I explained to her that she unfortunately canāt stay with me because she is a long term addict and that isnāt an option. After this, she reiterated that I need to have someone to come stay with me for a week or two at a time and if I canāt find anyone, Iām going to be hiding inside my wardrobe crying at 4am, she reiterated this multiple times.
Does anyone else here have limited to no support and have been grilled by midwives about this?
Iām considering ringing the hospital and requesting not to see that midwife again
Ps. Just noting that I am completely okay, Iāve lived my entire life without parents or a support system and this is just another thing. The midwife just really got in there with a dagger
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Hates the car
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what age did your babies start āputting themselves to sleepā
my bub is almost 6 months old and is a contact napper all day (by being bounced and then rocked and ocassionally placed in the cot to try and keep asleep not on someone). baby also used to sleep in cot all night but now itās in cot for the start of the night then cosleeping.
my partner thinks we need to just lay him in the cot and he will go to sleep as he needs to learn to put himself to sleep (even tho heās a baby and i donāt think he will just āfall asleepā)
bub has never liked sleeping in the pram and only recently started sleeping in the car. he just loves people and is a terrible sleeperš
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