Anyone relate?

Been feeling really lonely and depressed lately. Moved hours away from home with my new partner and my kids. I have no friends or family. I have no hobbies. My kids are 4, 3, and 2. My partner has recently been more detached. He wasn't very emotional before but now its even less. I feel he is caring less and less for me weekly. I just feel so alone. I cant shake this feeling that we wont be together when our baby is born. I just cant go through another relationship where im seen as an issue when all im doing is sharing how things have changed and it hurts my feelings and looking for validation. I feel at this point there is no person for me. I will forever pick bad seeds.

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I’m in a relationship and I absolutely love my boyfriend, but I’ve been feeling very lonely lately. 😢😔❤️

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Please please please tell him u guys need to go see a counselor bc u clearly can’t communicate with him

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It’s okey to be alone ❤️ but now try to comunicante with your partner, but if he can’t stand you , you may need to don’t beg him. Make him think you don’t care too ! asking himself why she doesn’t care about me no mere he will be realising that you’re losing care for him. that may work !! He may wanna have a chat with you

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Hi Girls, it’s my birthday in literally 45 mins and im literally alone because my boyfriend thought carnival was more important than me…he went today instead of being with me he didn’t even tell me he was going, he purposely delayed telling me when he was there and I just feel like im done with him. I’ve already done most this pregnancy him barely scraping the bare minimum its actually hard to even fathom this is a boyfriend. I’m 35 weeks pregnant and this really hurt my feelings today. You’ve gone to carnival knowing you have a heavily pregnant girlfriend at home on the day BEFORE her birthday.

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Hi Girls, it’s my birthday in literally 45 mins and im literally alone because my boyfriend thought carnival was more important than me…he went today instead of being with me he didn’t even tell me he was going, he purposely delayed telling me when he was there and I just feel like im done with him. I’ve already done most this pregnancy him barely scraping the bare minimum its actually hard to even fathom this is a boyfriend. I’m 35 weeks pregnant and this really hurt my feelings today. You’ve gone to carnival knowing you have a heavily pregnant girlfriend at home on the day BEFORE her birthday. Also I’m from the UK 🇬🇧 so if your unsure of what carnival is search Notting hill carnival x

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Finding my people

At this point idc where you live! I’ve joined group chats that every time I reply with my own expression SILENCE I’m not the type to go into detail. I speak pretty boldly but I’m an introvert, homebody type of gal, a texter not caller. A chiller not let’s hang outter. I love my home!!! This happens pretty frequently I’ll check on old friends but then no checking on me❌❌❌. Like not everybody is for everybody. Putting yourself out there is going to include rejection. Ok but where’s my people.

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Spicy bestieee 😮‍💨💋

Pregnant afff & craving a girl bestie to have some fun with (secretly) like & I’ll message you. I’m located in northern central Florida. 🤞🏼❤️

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