Baby moon but partner didnt plan anything
All pregnancy my partner knows how much a bavy moon meant to me, for us to have quality time before baby comes. Even earlier in the year he had an accident which meant we can’t leave the country fine but we had been speaking the past couple months at least about doing something like even a staycation locally away. I said that it would be nice if he planned it he said yeah he will. He told me two weeks ago which weekend he would be free ( weekend just gone)
Weekend came I wanted to see if he would bring it up and nothing at all we didnt go anywhere or do anything. He even went out with his friends Sunday evening. I stayed quiet just see will bring up anything in the slightest but no, So I brought it up lastnight he said to me “ oh its Tuesday now ur why ru only bringing it up now you didn’t mention anything all weekend yourself, and that I could have said something but I said “ You were the one planning it, it’s your job to tell me “ Then he says “ Oh, to do it now ( Im 39 + 4) doesn’t make sense your water might break , I then said “ Well Obviously now wont make sense but there was no consideration of saying anything or plans are off, it was your plan you chose this weekend”
he said he didnt really want to do it but was gonna do it for me he said ‘ i heard you, and cool’ i was thinking wow is that all? This is really how my feelings this was the one thing I was looking forward to pregnancy.
I asked him is that all you have to say ‘ cool’ and he looked me dead in the eye and said yeah. Something about that look and response just cut me deep.
The argument erupted he got pissed of that i brought it up when he was eating his dinner - but it was just a normal conversation if he didnt want to have it he could have said can i finish my food first.
He said im selfish and childish for bringing up ‘ nonsense’ now when hes eating and now he doesn’t wanna eat etc. conversation basically ended.
Im so over him and fake promises, isnt this wrong of him , advice please 😭
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It sounds like he finds your needs to be an inconvenience to his desires.
I think if you want a baby moon, plan one! 💕
Sounds like a child. Doesn’t wanna eat because of a conversation that upset him by upsetting you. He doesn’t care about your feelings or wants, I don’t see it changing after baby is here. Don’t hold out for too long to see if anything changes. Give yourself and your baby a deadline
I'll tell you this now...it is and will always be your responsibility to plan anything and everything. If you don't want it to be that way, you have a decision to make. Either your guy needs to stand up and grow up or you leave
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I'm currently on my period so my husband and I don't have sex when I am. We definitely still mess around alot and the last 2 days I've given him head to completion. I enjoy it so this isn't a hardship to me, but is it possible my throat is... its not sore. Thats the wrong word. But its maybe feeling a bit raw? Now is this... normal? Or like possible? Or am I just getting sick?
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If your man gives you sex good one night you don’t have to be asking multiple times a week for some good sex ??
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Baby moon but partner didnt plan anything
All pregnancy my partner knows how much a bavy moon meant to me, for us to have quality time before baby comes. Even earlier in the year he had an accident which meant we can’t leave the country fine but we had been speaking the past couple months at least about doing something like even a staycation locally away. I said that it would be nice if he planned it he said yeah he will. He told me two weeks ago which weekend he would be free ( weekend just gone)
Weekend came I wanted to see if he would bring it up and nothing at all we didnt go anywhere or do anything. He even went out with his friends Sunday evening. I stayed quiet just see will bring up anything in the slightest but no, So I brought it up lastnight he said to me “ oh its Tuesday now ur why ru only bringing it up now you didn’t mention anything all weekend yourself, and that I could have said something but I said “ You were the one planning it, it’s your job to tell me “ Then he says “ Oh, to do it now ( Im 39 + 4) doesn’t make sense your water might break , I then said “ Well Obviously now wont make sense but there was no consideration of saying anything or plans are off, it was your plan you chose this weekend”
he said he didnt really want to do it but was gonna do it for me he said ‘ i heard you, and cool’ i was thinking wow is that all? This is really how my feelings this was the one thing I was looking forward to pregnancy.
I asked him is that all you have to say ‘ cool’ and he looked me dead in the eye and said yeah. Something about that look and response just cut me deep.
The argument erupted he got pissed of that i brought it up when he was eating his dinner - but it was just a normal conversation if he didnt want to have it he could have said can i finish my food first.
He said im selfish and childish for bringing up ‘ nonsense’ now when hes eating and now he doesn’t wanna eat etc. conversation basically ended.
Im so over him and fake promises, isnt this wrong of him , advice please 😭
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Where do you like your man to finish? 💦
Help me settle an argument with my girlfriends. Where do y'all prefer your man to finish? (When you're not trying to get pregnant or induce labor like me right now 😭)
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My bf is being annoying sexually
Like he wants to have sex everyday. I’m not in the mood like that anymore I was but a couple of months now I just don’t want to. Yesterday he was asking me what should we do I said nothing let’s just chill and watch tv he turned around on the bed mad and went to sleep. I was like wow it’s like that a girl can’t freaking just chill and not do anything sexual. Like it feels like a chore I’ve told him this now don’t bug me. It gets to the point of him now saying sexual stuff actually gets the ick now. We’ve been together 9 years now. He goes to work comes home eats takes shower play games . While me I’m home with the kids working from home on call. Trying to pick up after them all day and doing things for work exhausted by the time he gets home but hey I also need to have sex with him everyday. I wish he would just back off when I say no for him not to take it bad just ok no it’s not like it’s been months of us not doing it it’s been a fucking day or 2 and he’ll act like it’s a year.
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