Do you think having sex every 2 days (every other night) in my fertile window will be enough to get pregnant?
We've not managed every day due to kids and me falling asleep on the sofa!
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I had sex once both times and that’s all it took 😊
Sperm can live in your body for up to 4 days.
My husband and I have “quickies” i turn the shower on or barricade my room door when I know they busy entertaining themselves. We be having like a 30min window before they wanna bother us
Same as above, one time was all it took for us.
Every other day is actually considered better because it gives the male partner time to recover.
Most fertility specialists actually prefer every other day, because it increases the amount of quality sperm per ejaculate.
It shouldn’t be every day as sperm need to mature to do the best job
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I don’t want my feelings towards him or his new relationship to influence decisions about our son. At the same time, I feel like being a parent starts before the baby is born, and I’m struggling with the idea of him having very little involvement throughout the pregnancy but then expecting everything to change once the baby arrives.
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Do you think having sex every 2 days (every other night) in my fertile window will be enough to get pregnant?
We've not managed every day due to kids and me falling asleep on the sofa!
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I regret giving up my autonomy.
I regret becoming dependent.
I regret getting involved with his drama and his shitty parenting with my stepkid.
I regret having to wait on him to do anything.
Recently he sold his business and hasn’t been working and has been home miserable. Now we’re having money issues and I’m looking for work again. I sit on the laptop hopeful to find sometime part time or full time remote and he sits there telling me to look for a job for him.
I regret marrying this man child. Who lied about who he was, what he had and what he was capable of. He totaled my car and purchased a new one in his name. Now I’m stuck in the house all day and he’s telling me to take public transportation, which I wasn’t doing and hasn’t done for 10+ years prior to meeting him.
Then he says take the car and make plans whenever but when I decide something his plans always take precedence.
Today I wanted to take my baby to the zoo since it’s free after 2pm on Wednesday. I made us breakfast, while he was at the gym with the intention to get ready after breakfast to go enjoy my afternoon. He tells me oh I have to travel 1.5 hours to pickup my brother, come with me. I said no obv because why should I subject my baby to sit in the car for 1.5 hours upstate, another 1.5 hours to drop him off to the city and another hour to come back home?!
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