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Walking behind some school girls and seeing their ass, trousers seems a very sensible option!

First women were forced to wear skirts and now theyāre being forced out of them lol.. I think a more common sense approach would be to not make it as gendered but have like a standard pants option or skorts/ a reasonable length short, but no rules about who can wear which ones. That way trans or nonbinary people can oscillate between those choices without outing themselves or experienced as much dysphoria and also you can not be forcibly heat trapped in some damn trousers in the warmer months

Policing kids clothing at school is weird and rooted in rape culture

I think its probably a roundabout way to avoid spending time and effort enforcing the skirt length policy. I remember when I was a teenager girls would roll up their skirts incredibly short and inevitably get into arguments with teachers. I dont think short skirts are necessarily bad, it's about time and place, but school is to prepare them for employment and most workplaces/employers wouldn't see that as appropriate

these policies are always targeted towards girls. Teaching girls that their bodies are distracting to boys and so they have to cover up their shoulders and knees, ect.
They sexualize girls bodies and teach everyone that boys cannot control themselves. That what they wear dictates how the boys will act and what they will do. Making it all the girls fault.
Rape culture.

It's a good rule some girls were skirts I can see too much when I'm driving past them , there's lots of pervs out there we don't want them looking at our kids .
This morning my husband got out of bed and I was more asleep still than usual. Our little one has become more mobile and somehow managed to roll off of the bed between the bed and nightstand. Itās about 2ft and we have carpet. Heās about 6 months old, rolling, now somewhat crawling.
I heard it immediately got him and he barely cried. As soon as I picked him up he was smiling and giggling. He has been eating, looking at us, grabbing and kicking all like normal.
I donāt see any bumps or bruises and he seems generally okay and unbothered by the entire incident.
My husband is very upset that we let him fall. He isnāt directly blaming me but I know Iām the one who failed our son. The guilt is overwhelming and I feel sick to my stomach. He keeps saying things like ānow anytime something is wrong weāre going to think it itās because when he fellā which makes me more upset š
Iām going to call his pediatrician but has this happened to other moms? Please donāt join this to just make me feel worse, Iām already very down on myself about it.
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So thereās a restaurant near where I live that has a kids play attached to a seating area upstairs , thereās 5 signs around saying ā you MUST supervise your children at all times in the play area , adults must remove shoes too ā and two signs in the seating area saying not to leave children in the play area alone while you eat / drink.
This is a very small area too so itās not hard to just sit on a block and watch.
But unfortunately as itās attached to a seating area parents take the opportunity to go and sit and eat and let their kids play
I was there with my 2 year old and he was running around having fun with some other kids when a bunch of older kids come running in with a couple younger ones , the older ones were grabbing the younger ones and pushing them down the slide. One got one younger one in a head lock and another was kicking her ! I told them to get off her and I was going talking to their mother.
I asked the parents that was there whoās kid they was and it was non so I went out the play area and she was the only one sat there with her head in her laptop and her headphones on watching a YouTube video ! I went over and said excuse me youāre suppose to supervise your children not your laptop , one is in a headlock being kicked in the head crying.
She started to apologise but she said ā no one had said nothing before ā like so she knows sheās suppose to but doesnāt care ?? I just said people like you are the reason I donāt come here. ( True I avoid going due to the fact parents donāt watch their freaking kids in there )
Admittedly I was sick of it by this point and i definitely lost my cool a little with her so am I the asshole for not just going getting her politely as I had done before
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I would love some advice as I really donāt know what to do. My husbandās family are all over from Prague, HK, Indonesia and we have a lunch booked with them tomorrow. My husband has said they now want to do dinner tonight. We have a 10 month old and a 4 year old. My 10 month old is at nursery today and doesnāt nap well and my 4 year old just started school yesterday. He wants us to pick them up and then go for dinner at 6pm (so unlikely weāll get back before 8:30), and we will need to take the tube to get there. I know that both of my daughters will be grouchy and just wanting me the whole time so it will be utterly exhausting, and we will be pushing our 10 month old to her limit (she doesnāt nap on the go very well at all). My husband also then wants to stay out with his brother to watch a football game (although he said he wouldnāt do this if it was too much). It is incredibly rare that the whole family get together and this might be the last time as the mum is suffering from poor health. My gut is saying to look after my daughters and maybe opt out so that my husband goes and then they see us tomorrow. But Iām also conscious that theyāll all be really disappointed not to see us. Any thoughts?!
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Hey,
My baby is 7 months, she doesnāt like pureĆØs, and Iām really unsure what to offer her ?
She is ready for food, as I spoke to my doctors, my health visitor, and sheās showing all signs, she will eat snacky things like wafers, and puffs, weāve given weetabix a go which she was happy with, but Iām just unsure what to offer to a bit of a picky eaterš
Any tips or advice will be appreciatedšxx

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Am I right to be annoyed? My husband went to work this morning. He then told me he was going for a lunch with someone at 1 pm and would come home from there, he said heād be home a bit earlier than normal, probably 4 or 4.30. He came home at 5.15pm, heās taking 45 minutes to an hour before he actually comes to take over care of the baby. The way I see it heās just had a whole afternoon of having a nice lunch and probably having some drinks while Iāve been looking after the baby. He shouldnāt need 45 minutes to an hour when he gets home before he takes over. Am I right to be annoyed? heās taking the time to go to the toilet, roll his tobacco, listen to a podcast in his officeā¦. Etc
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What are your thoughts on this? š
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