8 week jabs
My baby had his jabs on Thursday and has been unsettled since - I know obviously that’s to be expected to some degree, but it seems as though his whole personality has changed, he was happy before and now he just constantly cries when awake isn’t happy being held - he wriggles around and can’t stay still.
Has anyone else experienced similar and when does it pass?
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Not sure, but my baby is like this after her 12 weeks jabs. Is so hard to handle…
With the 8 week ones he was grumpy, clingy, upset, unsettled and had a temperature from the Thursday they were done until the Sunday.
He had his 12 week ones this Thursday just gone and I had to take him to hospital that evening as his temp was over 41 after 2 doses of calpol! He has gotten over it quicker - much more himself today - but just hasn’t handled them well.
Mine screamed the gps down was fine till I gave her carpol then it was game over. Her thighs hurt she didn’t wiggle as she normally does. Managed to b able to move her just before bed because I had to. She didn’t have a bath. Today she fine. She didn’t have any high temperature readings. I’ve never seen her cry out like that and for so long she had that anger catch a breath thing going on too
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My baby had his jabs on Thursday and has been unsettled since - I know obviously that’s to be expected to some degree, but it seems as though his whole personality has changed, he was happy before and now he just constantly cries when awake isn’t happy being held - he wriggles around and can’t stay still.
Has anyone else experienced similar and when does it pass?
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