I'm so at the end of my tether. 11 months of broken sleep

Everyone keeps saying baby will grow out of it. When?! I'm just tired on another level

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For us just after 2 x

My little girl got better at 8/9 months when I moved her in to her own room and bed. Is your baby in its own room? X

Our son has woken every 2 hours on average since he was newborn. He's 20 months old. We tried everything and he goes to sleep independently And happily but wakes up every few hours still. We got a referral to ENT who said he has slightly enlarged adenoids and tonsils. Could be worth a chat to your GP to see if adenoids are a problem if it persists past 1. Not sure if we will persist with surgery but it's validating knowing it's nothing we've done or any habits we've created.

It's so hard and frustrating when health care professionals don't take your chronic sleep deprivation seriously. It's affected the whole family including his big sister who he has to share a room with and there is literally zero support. I've been to the GP countless times at my wits end and they ask the same questions. If anyone asks me 'do you have a bedtime routine' anymore times I'm going to lose it!

The first thing I'd suggest looking at is what time they wake, nap and go to bed? If the timings aren't right they'll wake more overnight.

I'm happy to have a look and make some suggestions to the routine if you want just in case there is anything you've not tried/I notice.

That's really difficult.

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