IM MORTIFIED!!!
My 5 yr old caught me and my husband having some naughty time. We were both fully clothed vigorously kissing me giving him a handy down his trousers his hands on my boob I look over and my son stood there silent. Neither of us heard him walk up. I'm so embarrassed. He doesn't know what we were doing but it would definitely have look odd to him. My husband just said casually we are having a cuddle. Please tell me this has happened to other people we were in a private space
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It happened to me. We kinda did the same thing as you just said we were cuddling. It was also dark in my room so I always was hoping not much was seen.
I would definitely not be telling him you were cuddling. What would he do to his friends when he wants to "cuddle"? I would have a talk with him asking what he has seen and how he felt about it first. Then according to his answer, I would first tell him you are sorry he has to experience this and that you would care better for that not to happen anymore. Also I would explain him this is something that adults do when they love each other and that they both agree to do. Don't brush it off like nothing and educate him. Cuddle is something kids are doing all the time and you are just confusing him by showing that what he has seen is the same as what he is doing with his family and friends. You can educate him and take accountability for what happens instead of brushing it off because you feel bad about it. And also I would put a looker and be more careful in the future. These situations are very armful for kids. No one wants to see or hear their parents having sex 😭😅
This can be fine and it happens to a lot of couples! We had a couples therapist tell us that if anything like that happened with us, and he saw you guys in broad daylight, explain to him that you show each other love and affection in a different way than you show him love and affection. It’s just for parents.
Cuddle vs what he saw may create conflict/confusion in his mind. He may end up asking for questions than he would if it was just explained to him in a general way.
Also, he may have let it go by now? 5 year old minds wander a lot, he might not even care anymore.
He didn't care two seconds after it's more me being embarrassed I just wanted to know it wasn't just me xx
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My 5 yr old caught me and my husband having some naughty time. We were both fully clothed vigorously kissing me giving him a handy down his trousers his hands on my boob I look over and my son stood there silent. Neither of us heard him walk up. I'm so embarrassed. He doesn't know what we were doing but it would definitely have look odd to him. My husband just said casually we are having a cuddle. Please tell me this has happened to other people we were in a private space
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