Contraception

What contraception is everyone going on? I have only ever used desogestrel but I’ve now fell pregnant twice on it 🤣🤣 I’m thinking copper coil… anyone else have experience on that? If I had it my way I’d not be on any at all😢

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Ladies help. Me and my husband just don't have sex anymore.

After the baby we had sex a few times in the first few months but now it's probably been about 3 months since we last had sex. I'm 11.5 months postpartum. My sex drive used to be low. It ain't super high now but I want sex but my husband is always tired. Granted he worked shifts and it's been hard trying to find time to fit it in around baby's schedule and his work schedule but now he's off work for a couple of weeks and he just doesn't initiate. Neither do I anymore because I can't be asked with the rejection. So I've resorted to masturbating and a vibrator but I want some real flesh man I'm bursting. I posted on another chat before and ladies said he sounded depressed etc as he doesn't look after himself well with eating and always being tired but how do we get out of this rut? Other aspects of our marriage is good but sex is important and at this point I feel like I'm begging.

Christmas 🎄

I know it’s a little early, but what is everyone buying their little ones for Christmas?

Would you have an issue if your male partner made a new female friend?

So not someone he knew before he met you, just a new person that he met through work, hobbies, mutual friends or whatever, and became friends with.
Assuming the new friendship is the same as his existing friendships, and the ONLY difference is that the new friend is a female

Question

I just found out the guy I’m having a baby with blocked me on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok but left my number and Snapchat unblocked. I don’t bother or speak to him; I just let him be. He even bailed on me for the first ultrasound, which he kept asking me to come to, so I’m just confused about why he would block me when I literally don’t bother him or ask him for anything. He had a girl who liked him harass him for a few weeks, and she even harassed me to the point where I had to get a restraining order. He hasn’t messaged me all this month asking about the baby or anything would I be wrong if just went ahead and helped him out and blocked him on Snapchat and my number since he blocked me everything else

New to this app and don’t know how to work it😂

Hey! I’m having difficulties with this app!
I’ve put my search to 15 miles and getting everyone from all over Scotland and can’t seem to get the app to listen to me👀

I’m looking to connect with more mums from Aberdeen or surrounding areas!
I’ve got 5 children, but ideally looking to meet up with my baby girl who is nearly 7 weeks old🙂

We do currently attend a sensory session and massage session.

It’s all a little daunting going back to a newborn after nearly 9 years!

Ps - I’m married, 33 years old and we also have the sweetest frenchie! 🐾

Does seeing others achieve /do well motivate you in life?

I know when I see others doing great and doing what I want to do it should motivate me to think I can also be like them and achieve but it just has the opposite effect on me and makes me depressed. Not for lack of trying but because some aspects in my life are not changing for the better as quick as I would like. How to get out of this rut and maybe stop being envious/jealous?