How many times a day you do it and how much are you collecting? I just tried for the first time as I hit 37 weeks and I did not expect much as I really struggled with supply with my first. I just collected 5 ml from one breast but it feels like I could just keep going. Not sure how much I should be collecting? And how often?
Thank you x
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Theres no right or wrong. Im due today and havent bothered for about the last week, but I was doing maybe 3-4 times a week from like 36-39 weeks ish? Some people get 1ml or even less, some get more. It might be that as you have had a baby before you are more familiar with the technique, Ive found it a lot easier this time

How did you manage to collect so much!! I tried and got nothing but im not sure im doing it rightđ€Ł the instructions are intreseting đ€Ł

Iâm pregnant for the first time and managed to collect 10ml on my first go, and it couldâve kept coming đ I do it once a day and collect 10ml a day. I could do more but I have minimal freezer space ahahah.

I do it twice or three times a day as I plan to breastfeed and I'm hoping it will also kick start labour. Keep at it and work out the best way to hand express. I could only get a few drops at first that didn't even fit in the syringe, but after a few days I now manage to express 30-60ml a day! It's worth it

First pregnancy I only managed to get a few drops before baby was born at 38+5. This pregnancy I have been getting collecting 2 syringes per day since 37 weeks.
I love my daughter more than anything. I would do absolutely anything for her, and I know this is just a hard day⊠but fuck, I hate this.
I just cannot get a minute to myself.
The ONLY time she stops crying is when sheâs breastfeeding. Half the time sheâs not even feeding - sheâs just using me as a pacifier. Ironically, she wonât actually take a pacifier. Formula gives her the shits and makes her belly grumble, so I canât even have someone else take over a feed and give me a break.
My partner is at work. âWhy donât you ask your mum to come over and help?â
Help how? She wonât stop crying for her. I donât need someone to do my washing or make me a cup of tea. I just want to be able to put a dummy in her mouth or put her down in her bed and have ten fcking minutes where nobody needs me.
I miss having adult conversations. I miss seeing my friends. I miss doing my skincare. I miss being able to brush my teeth without thinking, âI need to get to sleep RIGHT NOW before she wakes up again.â
I miss having a moment where my body and my time feel like they belong to me.
I love her so, so much. I know this stage wonât last forever. I know there will be easier days.
But today is fucking hard.
Iâve never felt so broken
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Iâm curious about real life experiences rather than just the official recommendations! How old was your baby when you first let them watch something, and how much did you allow?
Any regrets about starting too early or wishing youâd started sooner? Has anyone noticed anything surprising, either positive or negative, that went against what youâd been told about screen time?
No judgement at all, just genuinely curious about everyoneâs experiences! â€ïž
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Hey! I am nearly 28 weeks pregnant with my first and haven't decided if we'll set up babies room before she arrives or when she's here?
I would love advice from people who have been there.
My thoughts are why set up a room and lose a guest room if she wont use that room for at least 6 months?
But my other thoughts are...
1. Will it be harder to paint and build furniture with a baby?
2. Will the house feel more organised/newborn life be easier if all her bits have a place in her room rather than scattered?
What did you do? and would you do it differently now you've lived it?
TIA x

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Curious as to when we start leaving our babies to wake up by themselves during the night??.
My little girl is six weeks and (touch woodđȘ”) has always been a great sleeper. I am still waking up during the night to wake her up for a feed as she would sleep all night if I let her.
Sheâs currently on 150ml every 3 hrs and 180ml before bedtime. She has had a good weight gain and perfectly healthy?? Should I just leave her till she wakes up herself?? Whatâs everybody elseâs experiences?? đXxx
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How do we feel about communal changing rooms at swimming baths? We took my son to a lovely little local pool, the staff were amazing with him and he loved every second but the changing rooms really put me off. Men and women are separated but thereâs no privacy and itâs a tiny room? I think this is a deal breaker but my husband says iâm being a bit dramatic- heâs not the one taking him though!
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I brought up possibly wanting one after Iâm done breastfeeding. Iâve breast fed all 3 kids and when this baby is done I would want to get it. My boobs changed a lot from breast feeding I think they are uneven & saggy now. I wouldnât get huge ones just natural but my husband says he doesnât like that and itâs âfakeâ. I told him it would just to make me feel good in my own body but heâs really against it. What should I do?
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