husbands low sex drive?

Is it normal for a man to have a very low sex drive?

My husband is amazing in every way and is really hot, but he’s always had a low sex drive and i’m the opposite - its the only arguments we ever have. But since having a baby it’s entirely non existent.

He’s defo not gay, or having an affair. So wtf is it. Should I think of leaving? I thought 4 years in it might improve not get worse.

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Has he had his bloods tested is everything fine? What about testosterone levels? I’d get that checked to see if it’s low if it is you know what vitamins and supplements to buy him and can do a process of elimination to make sure it’s NOT that.

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Maybe some time apart would do u guys good. It makes us miss our partner and sparks the flame sometimes

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How old is he? He definitely needs to get blood tested to check his testosterone levels to make sure everything is ok. Some men do naturally have a lower sex drive, I had a bf who was like that and it sucked.

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We both 35… yeah he had it checked when we tried for a baby because it was a nightmare trying to get him to have sex enough. Apparently it’s all normal. He’s had ED problems before too. It really does suck

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Omg and that's so young. How have you been managing? What do you do when you want sex and he doesn't?

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Could be porn induced ED they call it PED online. Or if he struggles with anxiety

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