What should I do

My husband just got home from work got out of his work clothes and sat dawn and we were talking then I seen a condom under the chair he was sitting on in our room that I’ve been in all day and cleaned literally this morning and we don’t use them at all I have no clue where it came from me and him have been married for three years and I’m pregnant with our second child and he’s trying to say that it was mine from a previous relationship which makes zero sense and when I asked him where it really came from, he got mad and left our room

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Wow I am so sorry you are going through this smh 😔 🫂 if you need to vent I am free just send me a message if you like

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Girl, I’m not gonna lie to you that explanation is complete trash. A condom you don’t use somehow being under the chair in a room you cleaned that morning, and his answer is that it was yours from a previous relationship? Then when you question him about it, he gets angry and walks out? That would have every alarm bell going off for me. I wouldn’t let him turn this around on you or make you feel crazy for asking a very simple question. If it was innocent, there should be a simple explanation. Getting defensive and refusing to explain himself doesn’t make the condom disappear. Don’t let the argument become about you “not trusting him “ the issue is that his story doesn’t add up. I’d tell him straight up: “I’m not stupid, and I’m not going to pretend this makes sense just because you’re mad that I’m asking questions. If there’s an innocent explanation, tell me what it is. But I’m not accepting a lie just to end the conversation.” You deserve the truth ! go through the phone

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Awee girl I’m sorry this is happening if you need someone to talk to I’m here I’ve sent you a message xx

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