I don’t know why I find my 6 month old to always smell? He gets a bath every night, but his hands are constantly in his mouth so they’re covered in saliva, he’s quite a sicky baby so he’s constantly being sick and no matter how many outfit changes or wipes to the neck, once he’s been sick that smell seems to linger until his bath. I see other babies and they just look so perfect, other mams have never really mentioned anything like this before. Am I getting in my head?
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We use Mustela cleansing water during the day before bath time x

Getting in your head but also you’re incredibly attuned to your baby’s smell - like some people say they can tell when their kids are getting sick because their smell changes slightly - so that will play a part. Ours went through a big dribble phase and was stinky but no one else commented (or dared to haha), it’s very much the nature of babies. My nephew was very sicky but can’t say I ever noticed on him.

I don’t think it’s in your head, I swear I can smell when my LO needs to poop because he always smells like he’s got a dirty nappy then it’s just a pee was a time he smelt for ages of poop then had a huge blowout by end of day
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