Sleeping through the night
Is anyone else’s babies still not sleeping through the night? My baby still wakes every 2-3 hours
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Yep! Remember it is the norm for babies to wake during the night, not the exception.
Just want to say that it is totally normal for your baby to still be waking multiple times a night. At that age they still need to feed and often just want some comfort which is fine, they are only little!
My youngest is 11 months and no longer feeding at night but still wakes up 1-3 times no matter what I do. She has only slept through maybe once or twice. They will sleep through when they are ready 🙂
My four year-old still tries to get up in the middle of the night and I know it’s because he wants comfort. I’ll sit there and rub his back and he’ll pass right out again.
Yep! My LG does a longer first stretch sometimes, like 3-4 hrs (only once she did 6.5hrs), and after that wakes up every 1.5-2hrs. There’s no consistent night with her, she can wake up anywhere between 2-6 times. So after the first stretch we co-sleep. I’ve become so used to feeding while co-sleeping that sometimes in the morning I don’t even remember how many times she woke up as most of the time i just go straight back to sleep after popping the boob in her mouth. And she goes back to sleep easily as well after feeding for like 10mins maybe. And that’s helped a lot with getting a good rest overnight.
Sometimes I get a couple of hours at the start but apart from that my LO wakes hourly. It’s brutal. We are hitting 4 months now so there will probably be some babies that slept not doing that anymore
More common than not to wake overnight until 3/4 years old!
Same here. My 3month old is awake every 2/3 hours. Only slept a 6 hour stretch once after his 2nd lot of jabs
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