Parenting situation what would you do? Please help!

He definitely needs to be disciplined. Don’t ignore it. I wouldn’t let him ride his bike anymore until he listens and keeps the helmet on. It probably passed time to discipline now but next time tell him you need to wear how much if you don’t wear helmet then you’re coming inside and you don’t get to ride it again until you wear it

And for talking and saying those not nice things i assume he doesn’t just randomly say it but if he says it because you said no to something then take that item away until he says sorry. And put him in timeout. We’ve been doing timeout when the kids hit and they can’t play with the item they want until they say sorry

Let’s pedal back. Where did he even learn to talk like that?

If he can't follow the rules, he can't ride the dirt bike. "You've shown me that you're not ready to ride the dirt bike. When I can trust that you'll listen to rules, we can talk about you riding the dirt bike again". He needs firm but kind discipline or the behavior will just get worse. As a side note, I'm not sure why a four year old needs a dirt bike anyways. Seems like an accident waiting to happen.

Dirt bike would not be getting gassed up or charged (idk what type of model yall have) for the foreseeable future.

Rules regarding safety on motorized vehicles are absolutely a hard hard boundary I would be holding.

As for the language I’m not entirely sure how I’d handle that on its own.

Is his father or other parent in the picture? Maybe he can have a talk with him? Your son definitely needs discipline now that he’s only 4, or else it will only get worse. You are pregnant and don’t need to be stressing. Also, you may need to figure out where he is learning this kind of behavior in the first place. Good luck mama, hope everything goes well.

That dirt bike gets taken away the minute he stops wearing the helmet. Give him the heads up. I would put the boundaries in place and hold to them.

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