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Currently being induced at 39 weeks and feel absolutely terrible for my partner being here with me. Uncomfy chair (expected) but them not even offering him a drink :(( I feel so guilty

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Don’t even worry, but let him know not to be afraid to ask for food and drink, and he can always grab pillows and blankets from home, once you’ve been in labour and birthed your baby you wont feel bad for him anymore 🤣

I wouldn't worry too much they will offer tea or coffee and food. I was induced and my partner was there with me. Luckily he took a air bed with us and slept on the air bed. But I'm sure he can endure it while your in labour because it's gonna be worse for you. Xx

You’re not alone in feeling guilty as I definitely felt like this every meal time but my husband said it gave him a good chance (or excuse as I called it 😂) to have a small walk to the vending machine or shop so he was as fresh as possible to support me.
As other ladies have said, please try not to worry about him over yourself as you need to save that energy

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