Still breastfeeding?

Girl. I feel this so much. I also stopped pumping and we are trying to drop feeds but I have literal anxiety about how to do our naps cosleeping or when he wakes up in the middle of the night and I feed him to go back to sleep.

i feel this! i’m still breastfeeding, i planned on stopping when she turned 1. she’ll be 13 months in a couple of weeks and i also really want my body back, i stopping pumping completely and exclusively nurse her. she nurses during the night a few times sometimes more but i really want to stop i just don’t know where to start. she also started pulling on my shirt as well but i notice when i tell her “let’s wait a little for more milk” or “let’s have some milk later” “let’s have a snack” she kind of listens and goes and does her own thing. i told myself i might just give her until shes 18 months but i know the longer i hold off the harder it will be. i definitely want my body back but i also love feeling so bonded! this is so hard 😩

Same here:(
Tired but he doesn’t eat enough solids .
And is nursed to fall
Asleep together with us in one bed 😫🤪

I’m also conflicted and still pumping/breastfeeding. My baby wakes a similar amount of times at night and with my babies they’ve had trouble sleeping without the night feeds despite theoretically not needing them and eating well during the day. I do have big babies. With my older one he just stopped night feeds on his own. For a while he needed an extra bottle/feed at 11 and then later all of a sudden started sleeping through the night (I think he was almost 2). So my husband insists he wants to let the baby take the lead and we follow her cues.

I wish I could stop pumping and sleep more through the night, but I also don’t want to give up the nights when I’m home and breastfeeding. The time I have with her is so quiet and special, especially juggling 2 now I don’t always get that 1:1 time with her except with breastfeeds. But the baby (actually she’s 13 months) skipped a feed last night and last week she skipped a few feeds so maybe she’s on the path to weaning herself soon.

I'm going to breastfeed my daughter until she's ready to stop... She sleeps through the night on her own for months. I'm just going to follow her lead on what she needs within reason. Just do what you think is best for your baby, and sometimes that may mean doing what is best for their momma because a happy, calm momma is one of the most important things for their healthy development!

I'm in almost an identical spot. 13mo, want to wean before baby #2, baby #1 still waking 2-3 times a night to nurse. My son has been refusing the bottle during the day sometimes so I thought he was ready to stop nursing but he's come back to it. Most guidelines recommend 2yrs+ if achievable, so I think we will keep going as the health benefits, long and short term, seem worth the effort