The title says it all. I miss when I liked my husband. I miss the way I used to look at him proudly and how I always wanted to be wrapped up in him. I miss when I was interested in the things he was. I miss being attracted to him. So much has changed and I just don't really feel connected to him any more. I don't look at him with adoration. It's just not what it used to be. He doesn't feel like my best friend anymore. I miss the excitement and passion we used to have... and good sex. I miss just being there for each other instead of feeling like a burden. I just miss having a man around that I actually like and likes me back. Now he just gives me the ick.
The end.
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How long have you been together? How long have you been parents? How long have you felt this way?
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way and obviously feel stuck....
what in the world are we doing nowadays to stay home with our babies?? my husband and i moved into a new house the same week we welcomed our baby and it set us back horribly. i’m a part time server & bartender, but would love to be able to work from home. can you please tell me what jobs we’re doing to accomplish this? if you have one- do you have any leads you can pass on? i appreciate all the help 🖤✨

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Has anybody managed to claim a free gift from the Amazon baby wish list? I have no idea how to do it but don’t wanna miss out on the free gift 😂 I’ve had the wish list for ages and spent way more than £20 on items
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I’m new here! Would love to connect with other moms that share similarities! Feel free to message me from wherever you’re from!

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Ladies, what are we buying for our husbands/ baby daddy’s for their birthdays?😂
Feel like I’ve got him most things and I’m super out of ideas this year, he loves gaming but has a switch and a PS5 already, any ideas would be appreciated thank you 🩷
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Can I get a ft and a hang out buddy ??

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Probably more a questions for any midwives etc.
My experience in NICU and motherhood makes me want to work with babies and new mothers. Unfortunately im not physically strong enough to become a midwife and I never will be. A mix of conditions mean in reality I will probably never manage to work full time and certainly couldn't lift anyone in an emergency (Or at least not without risk of injury to myself).
I'd be particularly interested in supporting breastfeeding, but also supporting new mothers with newborn care, or supporting the care of babies in neonatal units when parents cant be there.
So my question is this - do i need to give up on this thinking? I cant tell if theres any role that would allow me to do these things without becoming a midwife. I'd rather just know for sure and move on if its not possible.
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