Partners

If I were you , leave him alone for a day with the baby , pump milk for him to feed. And let him do the day by himself - all house duties and everything , and go enjoy a nice day off in spa

Men are so 💩

i think it’s hard in pregnancy, no one who hasn’t experienced pregnancy (regardless of sex) can understand the toll it takes on the body. it isn’t nice to hear that someone thinks that you aren’t helping with as much as they think they need help with, and it isn’t nice on the other side to feel unsupported and have to ‘nag’. express the way pregnancy is affecting you, and tell him all the jobs you think you can do without it taking a huge toll on your body. i’d recommend once you’ve had that chat, sitting down with your partner and making a little chores list! it sounds silly but having a list for you both to do so you don’t have to ‘nag’ each other or anything else helps the angst and frustration of the situation as you both know what you should be getting done. i found cooking / washing up was okay for me during pregnancy as i moved a stool over to the counter as standing for long periods was hard, but things like that. what you think you can do and the reasonable adjustments xx

Stop doing all the jobs that affect him only !!!!
Stop doing his washing, stop putting his clothes away, stop anything he could do himself that you do for him during the day. He will soon realise you do enough.
Xx

My husband got mad at me for not waking up early enough to help him get our kids to preschool on time. I’m 17 weeks pregnant and sick with a diarrhea stomach virus. When we got home from work, he didn’t even ask how I was feeling. Men suck.