I've started having a lot of intrusive thoughts since having my baby (5 months, no village), like crossing a street, my brain shows me that the pram is going to be hit by a car or that randomly on the street someone will take my baby from the pram and I'm no way fit to "save her"; I'll visit my in laws soon - the thoughts will be that they drop the baby and she'll die; and many more, is mainly about my baby safety. I know I'm sleep deprived (hourly waking for the past month) also sort of insomnia, and I get it - hormone imbalance. This causes me a lot of anxiety...Don't even know what my question is, maybe I just wanted "to say it out loud"
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This is normal, being a new mum is scary and you’re going to constantly be worried for a while. I struggled so much with intrusive thoughts bc unfortunately most people around me didn’t quite understand what i meant. Just know that you are doing amazing, feel free to message me if you want someone to talk to🥰

My post partum anxiety got really bad from 4-7 months post partum. I think it’s very common for mums to go through stages . Especially when the sleep deprivation hits and there is a huge hormon swing by then. Don’t feel scared about speaking to your close family and friends about what is happening or to reach out to your doctor. You might just need a little extra support right now. But it is just q chapter . These horrible thoughts will pass xxxx

Hey I’m diagnosed OCD and Separation Anxiety so intrusive thoughts are my jam. It’s normal to a degree but I’m not sure whereabouts you are but it might be worth asking your midwife/health visitor if your area has a perinatal mental health team, they’ll be able to organise some support for you whether that be medication or coping strategies or just someone to speak to for reassurance, I know mental health has a huge stigma that comes with it when you’re a parent but honestly seeing the perinatal mental health team was the best decision I ever made :) xx
When did you first drive with just your baby in the back? I've got the full safe setup installed but I am still nervous to drive anywhere alone yet. My baby is 5 weeks old on Friday and there's a bf support group I want to attend but it's too far to walk there :(
When my husband drives I am in the back with my son, holding his head when there are sharp turns and potholes because he is still a bit too small for the car seat to be holding his head in place (apparently this is normal and still fine but it worries me!)

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I'm 10 weeks postpartum and went to the doctor yesterday for our Mother and Baby check. When it got to me, the doctor said "can you lift up your stomach so I can see the scar" 🤣😭
...loool the way a little bit of me died inside. It's barely even an overhang and my stomach has healed really well! There's no flap. I found it funny but also a bit of a gut punch because it's taken me all 10 weeks to adjust to my new body, appreciate it for all it's done, given me, and start to accept/like it again. Any new mums had similar scenarios or finding it a struggle to adapt to liking your new mum body post C section?

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Hi everyone, I’m needing some help with pram/travel system recommendations. We won’t be able to get a new car before baby arrives and it’s quite small! We have a Mini Cooper, so boot space is limited at the best of times. I’m after a pram where the bassinet is foldable too to take up as little space as possible because we ALSO have a dog that will sometimes be out with us and baby.
I’ve been looking at the dragonfly, cove 2 and upline 3 but I just wondered if anyone else has any recommendations.
Thank you ☺️

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Hit 6 weeks with my little boy, he’s really irritable crying if not feeding, has all of a sudden started to get reflux symptoms, will fall asleep during feeds of a day the second you move he wakes up, nothing is working. He cry’s during burping and I don’t get burps out of him🙃 is it normal? Night feeding is a lot sleeps in his bed and hour if that

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Recommendations on a safe space for my daughter while I’m showering - bathroom is small and grown out of the bouncer.
TIA
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Any hints and tips for getting my baby off their dummy? They do have interest in their thumb, but it’s not consistent.
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