Have yall ever kissed and or had sex with your husband and not felt anything for them.

Context I guess is we’ve been having problems since we got together and I guess I’m just not physically into him anymore.

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Were you attracted to him at one point?

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Cant help in same ship as yours!

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Yes, took me awhile to reset. Start looking at what you like about him as a person vs romance

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It happens, you can try therapy. That way you don't feel stuck.

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How are we making friends in our 30s?!

Help!! I feel like such a loser. I have like no friends and just hang out at home with my kids and husband all the time. He is my best friend. But I also want girl friends to hang out with. He goes and hangs with his guy friends and I just stay home. He asked why I never go anywhere and I told him I have no friends and no idea how to even make friends. So help! How do you make friends these days?!

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Ordered sweet potato fries

She just wanted the dip (mayo and horseradish)

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Update

My bf came crawling back after dumping me over me following a guy on Ig last week (I’m 4 months pregnant and I didn’t chase him when he broke up with me). He says he wants this family and is willing to go to couples therapy and said all the right things but I’m still hurt about him being so quick to leave me while I’m pregnant 3 days ago. Am I holding on to it and should just try to move forward?

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Anyone around 23 years old and between weeks 8-11 of pregnancy?

I know this is super specific but i’d really like to know some people in my shoes 😂

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People pleasers don't please others

If you're a self proclaimed people pleaser, please don't. I know it feels agreeable and diplomatic. I know you think its a way to keep peace and maintain relationships.

But rarely do people pleasers hide their true feelings as successfully as they think. The people on the receiving end of your pleasing can often tell you don't actually want to do the thing, or you don't actually like them, and it just makes you come across as insecure or ingenuine.

So now you're unhappy because youre going against your own preferences, and the recipient is unhappy because your words and behaviors and vibes don't sync up. It makes people question your motives and makes you seem untrustworthy. Have the confidence to be true to yourself for everyone's sake.

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