BFF irl/virtual

Hey in dire need of a friend(s),
**I’d like to preface I’m not a fan of small talk or one sided conversations. Please don’t say you want to be friends and then not actually try**

I’ve been looking for my village/bff for YEARS
I need a genuine friendship; calling, texting, FaceTime, sending silly videos, body doubling on FaceTime so we can both have motivation to clean or whatever we’re doing.

I’m 33, married, have an almost 10 yo son, two cats, dog, and a lot of chickens 😂 I love to bake and cook, hate cleaning 🥴😂 I’m a sahm/homemaker, I love to read (thrillers and mysteries mostly)
I have the loml and my child, I just want my bff now ❤️

in our community

Have yall ever kissed and or had sex with your husband and not felt anything for them.

Context I guess is we’ve been having problems since we got together and I guess I’m just not physically into him anymore.

So… How Do Adults Make Friends?

First post in here and I figured I’d finally say hi instead of just scrolling 😂

I’m 36, a mom to a 19, 9 and a 2.5-year-old, all girls!! I work full time, so life is basically always busy.

I’ve also realized I’m 100% a Type C mom 😂 I have good intentions. I make lists. I forget about the lists. Somehow things still get done.

Honestly, I’m just looking for some mom friends. Like REAL friends. Someone to text random things to, grab coffee with, complain about life with, and actually make plans with.

If you’re in the same boat, I’d love to meet you. Because apparently making friends as an adult is weirdly hard. 😂

Anyone wanna chat.

Doing a field trip for the next hour or so, I'm soooooo bored sitting here. Trying not fall asleep 🤣🤣.

Just a late night thought because apparently this is what I think about at 2am 😂

I think one of the hardest parts about trying to make mom friends on here is that you just don’t know who you’re actually going to vibe with from a profile 😅

I’m super down to earth, go with the flow, homebody/cozy type of person. I don’t need to be doing something all the time. I’m perfectly happy sitting in the house with coffee, talking about random stuff, laughing, letting the kids play, whatever lol. So I feel like I’d struggle trying to build a friendship with someone who is super serious all the time or has a completely different vibe than me.

And then I think being in a similar stage of life matters too. I’m 32, married, and have 4 kids, one with special needs, might I add. That doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be friends with someone younger or with one baby, but realistically we might just be in two completely different places in life. They might still want to go out and party and I’m over here genuinely excited about my pumpkin spice creamer in the morning 😂

I think I want a friend who just…gets it. Someone I don’t have to explain my whole life to because they understand the season I’m in. And that’s so hard to tell from a profile.

And then sometimes the conversation just…dies 😅 Not even because anything happened, but it starts feeling like one person is carrying it or you realize you just don’t naturally click. I think that’s what makes trying to make friends on apps so awkward.

Does anyone else feel like finding people you actually click with is the hardest part?

Need a best friend for me and my son

Looking for best friend for me and my son I’m 25 like to go do things my son 9 months we are in Cincinnati Ohio

Anyone has regrets of giving full custody to father

I have been in a emotional physical financial abusive marriage for two years. I finally have the courage to leave. He took my money all of my valuables. I’m leaving this marriage with absolutely nothing. I am in a foreign country away from family and friends. I have no job no income he’s refusing to support me financially and he’s making even small things. Such as formula or nappy is so difficult. I moved to the Middle East for him I’m originally from London he’s not allowing me to take the child out of this country. I’m considering giving him full custody and leaving baby with him. I’m finding it very difficult to take care of her. I want to build my life as anyone had any regrets from leaving the child. I love my child, but I can’t do this anymore.