4 months

Is 4 months supposed to be the hardest age? In terms of fussiness and sleep? 😴 😢

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.

Add a comment

in the 4 month trenches now… ever so hard 🥲

I hope so, ten days so far of hellish nights!

It totally depends what you class as hard or what your comparison is for sure. Personally for me baby phase 1-3 months is the hardest but I’ve had two screaming babies! I have a wonderful toddler which most people say they have awful toddlers 🤷‍♀️🤣

It is hard, they are fussy because they want to move but can’t and just because they are babies and also sleep is hard because of the regression and a lot of babies are transitioning from 4 to 3 naps, all nap transitions are hard x

4-9 months was the hardest for me. My son woke up every 15-30ish minutes for 5.5 months straight. It was actual hell on earth

I think 0-6 months is awful! Everything gets easier when after that and more fun as they start moving and talking. It's coming soon, hang in there! X

I’m beginning to think that’s the case! Honestly baby girl is hard work right now

in our community

Driving alone with baby?

When did you first drive with just your baby in the back? I've got the full safe setup installed but I am still nervous to drive anywhere alone yet. My baby is 5 weeks old on Friday and there's a bf support group I want to attend but it's too far to walk there :(

When my husband drives I am in the back with my son, holding his head when there are sharp turns and potholes because he is still a bit too small for the car seat to be holding his head in place (apparently this is normal and still fine but it worries me!)

Accepting my new Mum bod post surgery

I'm 10 weeks postpartum and went to the doctor yesterday for our Mother and Baby check. When it got to me, the doctor said "can you lift up your stomach so I can see the scar" 🤣😭
...loool the way a little bit of me died inside. It's barely even an overhang and my stomach has healed really well! There's no flap. I found it funny but also a bit of a gut punch because it's taken me all 10 weeks to adjust to my new body, appreciate it for all it's done, given me, and start to accept/like it again. Any new mums had similar scenarios or finding it a struggle to adapt to liking your new mum body post C section?

UK Travel System Recommendations

Hi everyone, I’m needing some help with pram/travel system recommendations. We won’t be able to get a new car before baby arrives and it’s quite small! We have a Mini Cooper, so boot space is limited at the best of times. I’m after a pram where the bassinet is foldable too to take up as little space as possible because we ALSO have a dog that will sometimes be out with us and baby.

I’ve been looking at the dragonfly, cove 2 and upline 3 but I just wondered if anyone else has any recommendations.

Thank you ☺️

How long did you wait?

Obviously you’re meant to wait at least 6 weeks after giving birth but is it still safe to do it before the 6 weeks?

Breastfeeding journey

Hi all,
I am 8 weeks pp and my breastfeeding journey has been the worst thing ever! But I am still persevering! We were told my baby has a tongue tie and was booked in for a tongue tie division the following week, I have been experiencing the worst excruciating pain, like a burning shooting pain when he latches on, the skin around my nipples are sore and raw! Likes like toothpicks scraping whenever I breast feed, just wanted to ask if anyone has experienced the same thing and does it get better, I feel so defeated 😭

Milk coming in 27 weeks!

Hey just wanted to check if it’s normal to be leaking a small amount of milk at 27 weeks? This is my second baby and my milk didn’t come in with my first until around 36 weeks🫣