What are we all getting our toddlers for Christmas this year?
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So far on my list I have some more tonies, puzzles and games. He has requested a train track, lego and bluey toys.

My daughter is fully in her disney princess era so we're going to get her some more Disney princess Barbie dolls and we're going to get her a dress up rail for her princess dresses with some little dress up shoes and accessories too
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Iām looking for the kind of friendship where we actually become part of each otherās lives. Someone to do life with, make plans, go out, try new things, have random hangouts, talk about everything, celebrate each other, support each other, and be there through the ordinary little moments too. Iām definitely a high maintenance friend in the sense that I value consistency š. I like friendships where we keep up with each other, make an effort, communicate regularly, and actually spend time together. Not the āwe should catch up sometimeā and then disappear for three months kind of friendship. š
Iām easygoing and love a good laugh, but I really value intentionality, reciprocity and genuine connection. If youāre also looking for a friendship where we can actually do life together, whether youāre in Lagos or somewhere else in the world, letās connect.š¤

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Petition: Make statutory maternity pay 90% of wage for first 12 weeks & minimum wage after
We believe mothers should never be forced back to work because maternity leave is unaffordable. UK SMP is among Europeās least generous, falling to around 41% of minimum wage after 6 weeks. The Government should fix this and give mothers 12 weeks of Statutory Maternity Pay at 90% of their salary.
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/779259

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You can have a lovely conversation with another mum, exchange numbers and genuinely think, āIād love to be friends with herā⦠then somehow life gets busy and you never actually see each other again
Sometimes I think we all want mum friends, but weāre all tired, busy and waiting for someone else to make the first move.
So Iām curious⦠what do you find hardest about making mum friends?
Is it approaching someone? Keeping the friendship going? Finding mums with similar interests/ages of kids? Or just finding the time to actually meet? š
Letās have a real mum-to-mum chat š And if youāre also looking for genuine friendships, donāt be shy ā say hi, you never know who might be looking for a mum friend too š«¶š½

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Has anyone tried couples counselling and found it helpful? Going through a difficult stage in marriage for a while now and weāre just not able to resolve conflict anymore. I have suggested couples therapy but heās doesnāt think we need it yet.
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Letās connect! How are we all coping? Got a 6 month old baby, itās a beautiful journey but boy canāt it be exhausting!

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Does anyone actually get turned on by their partner sending dick pics? Mine complains that I donāt flirt over text and I donāt like sending pictures, this also means I donāt like receivingā¦
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