Convo between me and my husband

Me: your (early) dinner is ready.
Him: okay (comes to start eating but it’s a hot because it just came off the stove)
Me: (feeding our year and a half old toddler while he eats)
Him: it’s hot so I’m gonna go do something work stuff to let it cool down
Me: makes sense okay (still feeding and watching our kid)
Him: (goes upstairs does work stuff, starts asking me a bunch of questions about other things, and starts playing his phone game about 20 mins has passed from when he went upstairs)
Me: my stomach hurts I gotta go to the bathroom, keep eyes on our kid
Him: okay
Me: goes to bathroom with kid trailing behind me (totally fine cause husband is trailing our kid I make it to the bathroom and sit down)
Toddler: (rips trash can lid off and starts trying to get into it)
Me: husband he is getting in the trash can
Him: I’m right here (he was just out of my line of sight and walks in grabs our kid)
Me: I’m gonna finish going to the bathroom and then take a shower.
Him: but I need to eat my food
Me: eat it and watch our son- I do that all the time.
Him: ya but I’m not you
Me: well what do you want me to do?
Him: finish going to the bathroom and then watch him and when I’m done you can shower. It’s not enjoyable to watch him and eat( sounds fair but my husband eats one BIG ASS meal a day, watches his phone and takes about an hour to finish)
Me: I don’t care we are about to have two kids so you’re gonna have to learn to eat while watching them.
Him: (starts laughing and closes door on way out of bathroom, he knew I was right lollll)

in our community

A very autumnal pumpkin Macaroni cheese for the whole family

With added mini soya chunks and sweetcorn

Fed UP

I just feel so fucking agitated at the moment. I have 2 under 2 and one of them is autistic. So we have daily meltdowns etc. I'm up at 6am every day and don't sit down till maybe 10pm. I'm doing absolutely everything for them & the only break I get is going to the gym but I'm out for an hour max. As soon as I'm home I'm straight back at it, I don't even have time to shower.

My partners great but I don't think he has any fucking idea just how hard it is being with 2 small kids every minute of the day, managing appointments & the house. I'm starting to resent him. I'm snappy & miserable.

I resent my dog. He stinks & keeps malting everywhere. He's old so keeps shitting in the house.

The kids have kicked off for me all morning, yet as soon as he's here its calm & I look dramatic.

I'm not enjoying being a mum cos I can't cope with the constant stress. I've got adhd and autism so I'm overstimulated very quickly.

I've had ENOUGH.

I wanna know why are men so damn h*rny ?! 🤬

Im so frustrated because it seems like all my fiance can do is grab at my body and try to f*ck 24/7 like can they ever talk about anything else?! Its making me not want to be around him anymore.

I need advice!!

So, my boyfriend and I have a son together.and usually he doesn’t mind buying him things he needs like diapers and wipes etc…but recently he won’t get him anything that he needs. So when my son runs out we end up in an argument and he gets upset that he has to leave at 3 in the morning to get whatever it is my son needs when I told him days before he was almost out. I would get them myself but he doesn’t let me work because “he wants to take care of his family”. What should I do or say?

Thongs / Sexy undies to work?

My husband has an issue with me wearing sexy undies to work. Yesterday, I wore a thong for the first time in years because I'm just tired of my panty line showing 🙃 and oh my gosh he was very unhappy. He says that if he's not happy about it then I wouldn't do it. I should wear it at home. He says things like " men can tell I'm wearing a thong. " I don't respect him because I wear it to work, and he does not like etc. I just can't believe that it bothers him so much. I told him if I feel the need to wear it outside the house I will. It's not every time I want my panty line showing. I literally have less than 4 thongs, and only one Yesterday in years. No one sees under my clothes, so what's the issue. Please give me some advice on this? Who's wrong in this situation?

Snack ideas for plane

What snack ideas would you have for a 19 month old that will keep her entertained on a 9 hour flight and will fit in these little compartments? Will take more of course.