Micro cheating and emotional abuse
Just had a baby 4 weeks ago, my partner who is now telling me he has been unhappy for years and that we aren’t together is talking to a girl i know.
We have been rocky but surely if we weren’t together he wouldn’t want more kids?
I lost one 2 years ago and got pregnant again in January. We also have a 4 year old.
We have a mortgage but I can’t live with someone who is now calling me crazy when I knew something was going on weeks ago with this girl and he denied it and made me out to be crazy. I called him out when I found messages 6 weeks ago and he got aggressive and defensiv, said it was nothing and I had nothing to worry about. I asked again and he has admitted talking to her. This is not what I want from a relationship, I have also had to record his bad behaviour and the way he talks to me because it’s so disrespectful.
What do I do? Any advice would be much appreciated.
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Can you leave him? Do you have family who can support you?
You’re freshly postpartum and he should be doing everything to support you, sounds like he’s gaslighting you.
I have support from family and friends but nowhere I can go and he has the finances. My daughter has also started school so I can’t really leave my home. Just disappointed he has been doing this at the end of my pregnancy and now with a newborn
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