Large boobied breastfeeding Q
Large breasted ladies, I fear my son is outgrowing rugby position - any advice on other positions? Also any advice for on the go breastfeeding? I’m finding it hard to leave the house because feeding him in cradle is impossible as I have to hold my tit off his nose and he can’t get a good latch and it’s just a nightmare. Lying down position is good but impractical for multiple times a day so any advice would be amazing!!
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Roll a muslin up and stick it under your boob like “scaffolding” 😅 it hold the boob up, lifts the nipple higher so baby can latch in a higher position and not be under the boob, you can also see much better
As above rolled up
Muslin I think it also depends what your wearing. I wore a bra that zipped down the middle today so I was able to partially unzip and pull my nipple out of the bra without taking my whole boob out so my nipple was higher for baby to latch.
Depending on where I am I also put my foot somewhere to support my elbow on my knee and that elevates baby’s position too
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