Want a second baby
Hi mums
Need advice
I have been with my partner now for 6years but on and off. My lil one is 5 years and keeps reminding of how she wishes to have a sibiling . The issue is my partner and I hvnt been talking bout us or future plans for a year now let alone have sex. I want to completely leave this relationship and go but deep inside I feel guilty of not being able to give my child someone in her life. Idk what the future holds for me in terms of relationships.
My question here is should I get pregnant and leave or leave with my one child and be okay with it? Financially I’m still trying save more now but in terms of support idk have anyone here
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Depends if the want for another child is priority and something you can mentally cope with alone or with this partner x
I think your age comes into it too.
I’m in the exact same boat as you here I’ve been in my relationship for 8years and we have a 3year old together. Our relationship hasn’t been great for the last few months Morley my side I don’t know wether we’re gonna last any longer or not, anyway after my partner was adiment he didn’t want no more all of the sudden he says should we try for another even with barley any sex from us again Morley from me. I don’t know what’s up with me if I’m wanting this relationship or not but I don’t wanna be alone. I want to give my son a sibling now whilst he still young but would it be stupid to do this with our situation. Sorry for no advice just thought I’d share your not alone feeling like this 💙
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Want a second baby
Hi mums
Need advice
I have been with my partner now for 6years but on and off. My lil one is 5 years and keeps reminding of how she wishes to have a sibiling . The issue is my partner and I hvnt been talking bout us or future plans for a year now let alone have sex. I want to completely leave this relationship and go but deep inside I feel guilty of not being able to give my child someone in her life. Idk what the future holds for me in terms of relationships.
My question here is should I get pregnant and leave or leave with my one child and be okay with it? Financially I’m still trying save more now but in terms of support idk have anyone here
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