Nervous

Has anybody ever had a chemical pregnancy and felt so nervous to try again because the thought of having another one if so, how did you guys overcome the fear of wanting to try again but also nervous enough not to want to because July 31 I found out I was pregnant and August 14. I ended up having a chemical pregnancy and I really want to try again but I’m just anxious because I don’t want to experience that kind of heartbreak ever again.

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I had one in april. I didn’t try again in May because it was pretty upsetting
I fell pregnant in June x

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I had one in April and found out I was pregnant at the beginning of May. It’s was a month of mixed emotions but we’re now 25 weeks and our baby is doing amazing.

Give yourself the time you need x

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Not chemical pregnancy, but I’ve had 7 miscarriages, 6 before my 2024 daughter and 1 In April of this year, I’m now 13 ish weeks pregnant with my second rainbow 🌈 the fear will always, somewhat be there, I get filled with anxiety before every scan / check up, as does my partner. With my daughter, neither of us felt 100% relaxed until she was physically in our arms x

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Second the above☝️ . I’ve had 3 miscarriages this year- I’m pretty sure I have a blighted ovum pregnancy right now rescan next Friday to check. And I feel right now that I can’t go through all of this again- this years losses have me so completely heartbroken and exhausted I just don’t feel like I can let this happen again- so never is my answer you will never not be worried, you will never not panic at every twinge or feeling of uncertainty. Harsh answer but so true.

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Has anybody ever had a chemical pregnancy and felt so nervous to try again because the thought of having another one if so, how did you guys overcome the fear of wanting to try again but also nervous enough not to want to because July 31 I found out I was pregnant and August 14. I ended up having a chemical pregnancy and I really want to try again but I’m just anxious because I don’t want to experience that kind of heartbreak ever again.

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