Fed up

It’s her second wake now and we’re trying not to give in and give her the boob, she’s been crying (on us) for 50 minutes, I feel like the worst mum in the world

Co-sleep and feed side lying.. game changer. Get a firm mattress topper.

I couldn’t be dealing with transferring etc. if you co-sleep latch baby then go back to sleep.

It’s the only way I’ve survived breastfeeding 2 babies x

It’s tough but you’re doing great! I know it’s hard but two or three torture nights of not giving in and she will sleep through. My little would also wake me up but now she’s 19 months and we’ve had about four months of great sleep. She now sleeps about 9-10 hours straight. Around 15/16 months we had the two awful nights, she would stay up for hours and I would just pretend I was asleep until she tired herself out and knocked out. Then she just stopped waking up because she knew she wasn’t getting milk until morning.

I'm with Samantha, you got to let her cry it out.

I had this also, in the end we removed me entering the room at all and solely my husband entered and did the wake ups, we introduced a teddy and just kept offering her that and stroking her with it after id laid with it for a couple of nights....took about 5 days but it sorted it out,....we also made sure we timed exactly 5 mins before he entered, feels like a lifetime but it's not x

The comfort ladder where you try different things first with nursing as a last option helped up move away from feeding back to sleep and you only allow 30 seconds of crying before trying something else.

I don’t want to be that guy and dishearten you but my breastfed baby didn’t sleep independently or through the night until we weaned entirely.

Will your husband be able to go to her a few nights when she wakes? Since she does somewhat settle for him. And you can be somewhere where you can't hear her cries? And your husband can call you in if it's getting too much x