Does anyone else feel bad while trying to sleep train?

I’m in the same boat as we speak, I keep looking at him on the monitor and I just feel so guilty

Also you aren’t doing anything wrong, they are used to us we are all they have known their whole little lives so change can be difficult for them to adapt to, just stay consistent and it will get easier I promise. You’re doing amazing momma🫶🏻

It's soooo hard! I sleep trained my now 4 year old, and the results with her help, but I still struggle emotionally. 😭
Fwiw, by around 6 months my oldest was sleeping reliably through the night and has continued since. She's happy because she has routine and regular rest, and I've been able to be a better version of myself because I haven't been kooky from sleep deprivation - at least until my son was born.
I set timers and limit how much I have to listen. Like, turn the sound off the monitor, etc. When I try adjustments in wake windows, etc, I give it a few days, ideally at least a week, to decide how well it's working. Crying should significantly decrease after a week, 2 at most, so try to remember that it's just temporary. The baby should be fed, dry, and properly dressed. And I use Ferber, so that method does still allow you to go give comfort.
Idk. It's not easy, but I really think sleep training saves lives. It keeps you from bedsharing and gets us the sleep we need to prevent mental health issues. ❤️