Is this normal?

My 3.5yo son is normally very loud when he's in a park, soft play, family friendly holidays. Sometimes a bit too loud and doesn't understand some kids aren't reciprocating it. But I received his nursery report today and they say he's shy and likes to play alone. So I don't get it. He does in 2 days a week. Is this normal?

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My nursery says my kid is agressive for no reason and at home and in play dates and at the park he is super kind with everyone. I think it depends the everionment they are in and how comfortable they feel. Its like adults. At work we have more discipline that we have comparinh our personal lives. Probably your kid feels that they he needs to behave with caution and cant be his fully self. Its not a bad thing though.

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Kids act differently at daycare sometimes. Nothing to be shocked about its just a different environment and if he isn't there every day then it makes sense for him to act a little more shy when you aren't there he could feel more comfortable with you to be himself.

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